Do women do it more? I know some call them shit tests?
I don't know who will do it more or less, I just don't know all the women in this worldbut I can tell you about what I know because I have experienced it, and I've seen two girls run some of these "tests", one was (we were) very young, so I found out right away and it made me upset because I felt like maybe she thought I would have no idea or that I could be that dumb... lol, but I did not confront her about it, I just looked at her like "this is way too obvious" and she got the point. Then I just laughed it out to myself.The second one was what you call a "grown up" and again I found out, this time I confronted her and told her that she doesn't need to do that, or at least that I do not appreciate it. I like to think that I am a very tolerant person on most things, 90% of things and that is why this stuff didn't become a problem but people are different, many people do not like to be tested like this, it can be insulting and seem manipulative, so women can see it as a clear sign that you're immature for once, and also manipulative and insulting, while men just usually say the typical " this girl is crazy "
I forgot to say, that I also knew this guy who did some kind of BS friendship test, or loyalty test and I didn't even consider him my friend... lolhe just had something against me and so he tried a biased "loyalty/friendship" test to confirm his biased feelings about meNeedless to say I just ignored him completely since then
Oh. Maybe he was testing or insecure? Maybe he assumed you didn’t like him?
Testing by giving me the impression he wasn’t interested? I’m not sure how that makes sense as I was very interested but stopped putting effort in after that. I wouldn’t have been going to meet him if I didn’t like him.
Maybe he thought you only liked him as a friend?
No we went on a date so I think he already knew it wasn’t friendly
Did you both say it was a date?
Yeah, he did, I thought it was more of a casual meet up but I went along with what he said.
Oh I see. Maybe he thought you weren’t keen on it being a date?
I can’t speak for him but I think I made it clear I was interested. I asked him if he wanted to meet again and he just said I really liked you but didn’t bother to meet again so I was right all along it seems.
Oh you didn’t already know each other. In that case I can see your point.
Yeah, we’d talked a while online beforehand but not met much in person prior.
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