I told her to buy a night light, I am not comfortable. Then we argued a little bit, she said how is this making you uncomfortable, you shouldn't listen anything near you when sleeping, I can’t even hear do you call this voice high. I was like wtf? She tried to lower tv voice amd didn't answer my question 2-3 min. Then I asked are you thinking about what I asked? She didn't reply, and I said again then she said do you want to pick on me (like what is it now you want to argue?) I said no, I am simply telling my problem. I said I didn't tell because I didn't want to make you sad for 1 year and she said yes you arr making me sad. I said dont be selfish, I dont want it. Then we stopped talking. I had to sleep there for that day but not now.
Next time I am going to sleep with her I won't go there and simply remember her the things I said. Maybe I can even tell her to buy a night light in day time.
@Tuna陶拿恆 Yeah she is Gaslighting you just dont do it anymore, she can't have her cake and eat too.
Thank you. Your words gave me courage 😔 I was just trying to be nice. This made me vulnerable.
I don't know if some past issue caused her to be like that. I don't know why she has that but through some puzzle on my mind I can understand her life was sad and still sad. I don't want to make her sad as I can understand she cares me a lot and probably only me in this world but this issue is bugging my mind. Thanks for your opinion, I will probably tell when we are about to sleep.
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