Should I ask my friend why he made this comment?

[zeitgeist057]

How can you not know? He means time to GTFO of your current relationship and that' just his way of adding it passive aggressively to the conversation.

I mean, there might be even more to it than that, like him meaning that HE would be the good man that you should be with to be a mom. But the basic message that he doesn't approve of your current partner is clear. Hahaha I've seen some of your other questions about him and answers and it seems like pretty much everyone agrees on this matter. :P

[ohshee]

I think down deep you know exactly what it means a lot of your questions have had your reservations about his commitment is loyalty his character I don't even know the guy and I agree with your friend and I don't even know you but through your post I love kids but the way the world's headed right now we don't know which direction is going to go into anything can happen at any time any moment it's going to be all chaos if you have a child whatever is going on it's going to become 10 times more difficult and if something was to happen to either parent did that child is messed up the bucked up world

[TheorionMage]

GOOD 'parenting' is dependent upon reaching concensus between Mother and Father.

Kids are cunning, its the ONLY offensive 'tool' nature affords them.
They probe... they test... each parent's tolerance and parenting style.
Who's stricter... who physically disciplines?

Your guy friend may see too great a difference in your present companion's
parenting philosophy and your innate maternal disposition.

[JuliaStyles]

Sounds pretty plain to me. He apparently doesn't approve of who you are with now. From what I've seen on G@G a lot of women make bad choices in guys, preferring bad boys over good guys and they pay the price in the end.

[reallyhonestguy]

Yeah I agree with others.
It can be either is true friend of you and know you well or he likes you or it's both.
Keep in mind, people that know you well will have am outsider perspective to your relationship that maybe you are avoiding it.

[ZackBan]

It's called an opinion all humans have them, not all chose to share them.
There's not necessarily a strong reason why he said what he said but if you really wanna know you can ask all the same.

[invalid1]

What I will do in your place, ask him in private why did he say that.
Then ask the same question from your boyfriend, why did he say that? What do you make if this? Then you'll get the picture.

[Leavesbound]

Maybe he wants to be the father of your children. Maybe he things your boyfriend is a bad influence. Maybe he thinks your boyfriend would make a bad father

[GnatSocks]

Ask him. Also, is your boyfriend decent, a player, or a fuck up? That would indicate if your friend is jealous or just being straight up.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think your guy friend must not like your boyfriend, I think it's your business who you like to be with and it's your business on whether you want to have children or not?

[kingofthellamas]

Its not that complex. He means you are going out with some guy. That guy you are seeing would not be a good parent, if you were to have children together.

[Wiredone]

He apparently knows your boyfriend and it seems like he doesn't like him. Maybe he is not treating you the way you should be treated. He probably knows he is not right for you and you deserve better.

[Josh4206]

Ask him, maybe he doesn't like him or he could have seen him do something that your boyfriend is hiding from you.

[Jjpayne]

You could ask him why would you say that? See what he says 🤔

[DJB72]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Or more simply, ask him.

[exitseven]

Maybe the guy you are with now is less than honorable.

[Finchie40]

Sounds like he thinks your boyfriend is a piece of shit and that he feels you deserve better , also he might like you as well

[JamieLoves]

I think that it’s obvious.. He either thinks that the guy you’re with is an Ass or that he likes you. YES! If you like him ask him. DON’T PLAY GAMES!!!

[MasterOfReality]

Sure, why not. Ask him. Sounds self explanatory though- your guy would make a terrible dad in his opinion.

[Born-for-sex]

I mean you can ask him but I don’t think it means what you think it means...

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like he was talking about himself being that guy, but yes do ask him to clarify.

[Tstrbrainer]

Yeah, he either likes you or thinks, like many others that your boyfriend is not worth your presence or it's a mix of both

[Djaay]

Just a competitive statement suggesting himself instead. Although , could be true about the other guy or completely bogus too.

[Alyssa11]

Yes I think you should ask him. It sounds like he has something to say but he’s too afraid to say it.

[Clarke498]

Maybe he's seen that you're unhappy or something. Maybe he don't think the dude you're with now is a long term dude.

[Guanfei]

He just doesn't like your boyfriend, for whatever reason
Or maybe he's into you and he's trying to ruin your relationship to take the place.

[Anonymous]

You know exactly what he meant. That guy must be psychic

[Saul_Goodman]

I think he wanted to encourage you to be a good mom. And he probably thinks that your boyfriend is probably not a good boyfriend. And maybe he loves you.

[jasco]

Well he thinks that the guy your dating sucks and he wants you

[Aurora1010]

It means he doesn't like your boyfriend or he thinks that he's not a positive influence on you

[PrettyWoman_]

He doesn't like your boyfriend for sure. He sounds jealous.

[loveslongnails]

He means "your boyfriend is a douche nugget and you shouldn't have kids with him. But if you had a good guy, you'd be a good mom".

[MrCreep]

Well you keep saying he's not really a man and he acts child like so why ask him you know already

[JosyJosy]

Of course you should ask. if you wonder things you must ask

[SenseiSeptred]

He has seen your guy do something that is not good that you may not realize your guy is doing because of in love you are with him.

[Satish2607]

He means you are caring and would make a great parent, but the guy you are dating could not be responsible enough to be a parent.

[hello_kitty_man]

Sounds like this said guy wants to be with you over your current beau.

[lucyloo76]

It would seem he does not like your guy friend..

[Account]

He doesn't approve of your boyfriend.

[Shy_Steve]

It sounds he either likes you or doesn't like your Boyfriend or both.

[jerdanro]

He thinks you deserve betteemr and maybe wants to interview for the position himself.

[HateMetaL89]

You already know what he means. He have feelings for you. He didn't have the right to say that tho.
It was rude.

[lsksni10]

Ask him at once. Men sometimes like direct confrontation where they don't have to start the talk.

[nawtee_me]

I think he may want you to have his baby... ;)

[Nahid1707]

I’m sorry that happened 😕

[OddBeMe]

He wants to father your children.

[TaeTaeTeaBTSSS]

He doesn't like your boyfriend

[sheikalana]

He thinks your boyfriend is an asshole.

[Slim57]

Oooh yeah. He Def doesn't like your man

[Anonymous]

he likes you but not your boyfriend

[In_Trance]

yup, call him out

[Anonymous]

You should