Would you be more sad over never getting to know a love one that died or knowing them well then they died?

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I have 5 siblings whom i never knew. 2 my mom had abortions. 3 of them were born then killed off. I wonder if life would have been less lonely if they were alive.
Never knowing them is sadder
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Knowing them then they die is the saddest
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