I dont want to be an involved uncle? Is that ok or not?

I have a niece that’s almost a year. For most of the last year I have been a very involved uncle. I have spent a lot of time with my sister and brother in law. I have visited them a lot, helping them taking care of her. I have to say I get kind of exhausted every time. First my sister is the most demanding person i know. Can’t handle any kind of criticism but have now problem confronting me and other members of the family. My brother in law is also a bit demanding. He asks a lot of questions and that combined with my sisters preasence, is very intense. And about my niece, well it may be to early to tell what kind of personality we will see but the last year it’s always been instructions on how to talk to her, how to play with her etc. Honestly it’s very exhausting, so I’m just gonna say it. I do NOT want to be an involved uncle. Do you guys think that’s ok? How do i establish distance to that part of the family. I’m curious what you guys think?
I dont want to be an involved uncle? Is that ok or not?
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