If a husband only cheats by making-out, does that counts as an affair? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Yep, it sure does.

[Asker]

They're working on the marriage but these things are hurting my friend:
- Knowing it would've kept going on if she would've never read their texts (confirming indeed that they only kissed but her husband expresses his fantasies and tells her it can't go further because then the chances of getting caught are higher nowadays) -
- She still has the picture another friend of hers took of them kissing in park. That friend informed her and forwarded it from her cell.
- The fact that he shared practically every single private information aobut their marriage life and her childhood secrets.
- Her husband at first tried to downplayed his cheating and expected her to get over it quickly because of his excuse that it was just kissing. The words he kept repeating was ''but I didn't have sexual relationship with that woman''
- The fact that she feels she can't trust him at all

[mandyfire98]

It's still cheating

[Anonymous]

What about wife?

[Asker]

I would say it's the same. Making-out with someone else while married it's cheating. I was asking the question about a husband because my friend is in that situation and she's hurt over it.

[Joker_]

Obviously

[Asker]

Well it took her husband a couple days to really understand how hurt she was. He thought that since it wasn't a sexual affair and it was just kissing, that she would get over it faster.

[Joker_]

No, he probably understood perfectly well that being physical intimate with another woman while already being involved with a woman is a wrong thing to do - because this is axiomatically obvious.

So the reason it "took [him] a couple days to really understand" is because he's a narcissist who only decided to admit some fault after it was blatantly obvious to all that him being a shitty person got found out - it didn't take him long to understand; it took him long to admit he is a shitty person.

I'll also note that he would have definitely eventually tried to have sex with that lady he was having an affair with.

[Jouth]

Damn @Joker_ , go innnn

[Joker_]

lol‎‎