I got in argument with my mother because she has tried to choose my partner, what should I do? (Page 2)

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I love my mother more than life itself. I got in argument with my mum. I have never had a boyfriend and I am 24 years old. When I was 19–22 years I was told by my parents in particular by my mother don’t have a boyfriend until you finish your studies. My mum made a comment the other m day that your youth is going. I said to her you was the one who said I should not have a partner. I am going to move out of my parents house. Then she said to me moving to a city is not going to help anything. I said I feel trapped at home like I am in a box. My mum has put me on dating sites to try to help me. However she likes the guys I do not like. Or when I like guy and she did not she would delete them. Even if I showed her a picture she would make comments about them. I understand my mum comes from a good place but. I appogiesed for hurting her feelings. I feel extremely guilty. But I said I had to tell you how I feel and that is how I genuinely feel. I want some space and to make my own decisions and chooses. I understand she was trying to help because I have been very low at times. But I would like to choose who I want to go out with and make decisions. I do not want constantly seek approval I want to be free. My mum seems very withdrawn and low I have never seen her like this and I feel horrible. I love my mum and I would do anything for her.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Look at the end of the day you like what you like so at some point you have to tell you mom with all do respect I got this but thanks for all of your help

Anonymous · Answer

Time to be your own self. What's stopping you?

PatriceONeal · Answer

Your father should choose a man for you not your mother. How stupid.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Put your foot down and live your own life.

WTFdivorce · Answer

Mom's don't always know best.

In_Trance · Answer

Stand your ground

I got in argument with my mother because she has tried to choose my partner, what should I do? (Page 2)

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