Why is it that whenever I’m feeling better about myself my friend finds a way to bring me down?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

Because your freind is a shit freind... so find better freinds.

[Spade_01]

Because they're not your *friends*. Just a bunch of jealous or haters masquerading as friends.

[provokeesmokee]

Your friend isn't a real friend. They use you as a victim.

[boggboss]

Because u picked shit friends

[Asker]

So many people are disingenuous nowadays. And so two faced!

[boggboss]

But once u know someone is like that why keep them in your life

[Asker]

I’m starting to stand up for myself more. It’s weird now because ever since I’ve been healing more I’m dropping so many friends.

[Asker]

But you’re right. I just have a tendency to ruminate so much because I’m also autistic and think so much about social situations.

[boggboss]

Its good u are standing up for yourself but it shows the type of friends u make which u can then work on fixing

[boggboss]

Oh thats fair enough

[Asker]

Thanks for understanding, yeah it can make things extra complicated lol

[Ms_Facesitter]

Cause they're not your friend.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Aaand you still see them as a friend, that's why it keeps happening.

[Asker]

But if I drop her she’ll go tell other people lies about me. We’re in the same circle.

[Asker]

And she keeps asking who else I was talking to (at an event we were at) and then when I told her, after that those people get quiet around me

[Ms_Facesitter]

Then they're not your friends either if they believe her.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'd rather just be alone and "play friends with assholes"

[Asker]

Ikr. Some people just have nothing to do but focus on drama. Lol. I just wanna enjoy life y’all

[Ms_Facesitter]

Start enjoying by dropping them and finding yourself actual friends.

[Asker]

Like this friend is a psycho. I wasn’t invited to her grad party and she made up multiple reasons why so I called out her dishonesty. Then I separated myself from her the rest of the time we were at the event, and she was like “where were you? Who else did you talk to?” Trying to make me out to be the bad guy

[Ms_Facesitter]

No no, don't talk about them either, forget them.

[In_Trance]

have you talked to your friend about this?

[Asker]

She just gaslights me. I think she leaves me out of invites cuz I’d also look better than her and she doesn’t want that.

[Luckycharms12]

Jealous

[Mynameisbobby]

Jealousy