Because I'm not obsessed with getting the "hottest" boy friend, or even getting a boy friend at all at the moment?
I mean, eventually I will want to have a really nice husband, and a beautiful, loving family.
But right now... I'm cool with just having guy friends. Sure, I get crushes here and there, but having a relationship just isn't my first priority right now.
I'm a senior in high school, never had a boyfriend, And quite frankly, I'm alright with that. As for now, my priority is to study hard, and get into a good college.
THEN... I'll begin looking for the right guy for me.
Also, I'm not all caught up in the "ooh, what's the coolest thing for me to be wearing right now" type of thing.
I mean, I wear what's cute and comfy, and that doesn't include loads of make up.
I mean. Take good care of myself, and have really good hygiene. I just don't think that it should take an hour to get ready for school in the mornings.
Is this really weird?
Is this perspective a turn off to guys?
I understand that some guys will have different opinions... But I would just like to get a sense of what some opinions are.
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hmm ! sounds like a genuine doubt for a person at your age.But as you mature you will understand that all this fantasy of going after the coolest guy or having a hunk by your arm is short lived ! because relationship is not about looks ! Relations are something which need time and for that you have to be patient . I don't find anything wrong in your choice .. if you don't wanna have a boy friend . Its a priority which you have decided early in your life. Ans people who are clear about their priorities tend to break good in their career . Besides, you have a big life infront of you.. you will find someone who would share the same thoughts and feelings which you have.!
I will say this is normal though it would not be the thought of the current generation.
As far as your thought regarding the "turn off for guys" is concerned , I would say that it would depend on what kind of guys are you thinking about! Common a playboy would consider you to be strange but then some other kinda boy ( mebbe who shares the same thought as you) would consider it a perfect thought !0