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Seriously dude... don't listen to the females. They'll only give you the answer that won't hurt your feelings.
I think you would classify as a 5. Average. I have news for you tho, dude. If you go to OKcupid.com there are some analyses regarding female perspectives and tastes. You would literally be considered a 1 or a 2 in most females' eyes. As would I. One analysis in particular includes graphs and other data; the founder of the site was some kind of mathematics major in college. Anyhow, you'll see that most men on the website are well below an average "5." Talk about being unrealistic. But there it is.
Try not to worry about it man. Do you. Stay busy, improve yourself, worry about your family. Worrying about shit like that will only drag you down man.