I have a boyfriend with a great personality...but he isn't that good-looking...i like him but my friends say: what the h**ll are you doing with HIM.?!?!..and I admit they really affect my opinion...and I kinda agree with them...but he is such a nice person...what should I do?should I stay with him?
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"a great personality...but he isn't that good-looking. what should I do?"
a). Find out what kind of guy you want, that's "the one", for you. b). Match this boyfriend with "the one".
"should I stay with him?"
If he is "the one", then stay. If not, leave.
If looks is important to you, don't get into a battle with yourself with arguements such as "looks are not important, don't judge the book by its cover, beauty is but skin deep...etc.". Despite their truthfulness, if looks IS important to you, admit and accept it. How long can a compromise last? Ans: As long as you can put up with the "pain". If you want a sustainable, happy relationship, don't go for compromises; steer clear of mediocre relationships.
If looks aren't that important, and you decide to stay with him, turn a blind-ear to your friends' comments. Tell them it is your life that you are living, not theirs, and that they are not here to live YOUR life, for you. Take a look around, where are those who go for looks and failed to see inner beauty? Ans: Some end up here >>>> link