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How do you not know how tall you are? What most people consider short is someone shorter than themselves. A lot of women out there go for short guys because if they didn't then how come a lot of them have a girlfriend, fiancee or wife? There are a lot of guys that are so called short that are willing to put their life on the line for their significant other or that special someone. I am one of those guys. My girlfriend is taller than me and is a bbw and we get a long wonderfully so I wish you all the best.
Because people have said I was 5'3 but others have claimed to be 5'5 and/or 5'6 even though I was on equal level with them and we both had flat shoes. I guess though people were lying but again 5'3-5'6 is still short according to society's standards. I know what people consider short is someone shorter than themselves.
I never said girls didn't go for short guys as a matter of fact my own personal experiences is proof that they would go with a guy who is their height or shorter. I stated this time and time again I would put it in a update but I can only post two updates per week due to my level (level 2).
That's great man. She sees the full profile of you and not just height and/or she sees the height but didn't let that stop you and her from getting together. It doesn't matter and it shouldn't. That's great.
Im 5'2 and any gurls are kool with going down on meh =3
I dont see why. Some gurls are shallow than the others. Just gotta meet the right person who arent. Those one are the ones who will look deep inside ur heart instead of outside ur heart if u can feel meh =}
*High five* Just gotta separate the weeds from the grass.
Thats one trick to look at. Gotta keep them weeds growing lelelel
lol there is the player right there
lmao! rumors about meh are everywhere *-*
That's not true. I like tall guys, because I like hugging them around the waist, they attract me more and this has nothing to do with protection, I can protect myself. But my previous love was my height and it didn't bother me, because I loved him. You should give girls more credit and stop feeling sorry for yourself and blame just height. Girls feel that and it's not attractive.:) Good luck.
subconsciously it is for protection and you think you can protect yourself but not better than a man can.
What if I'm really strong and the guy defending me really weak? What then? It's quite sexist to say you guys are strong and protectors while we're weak and in need of a protector. I'm not denying, in most cases you are, because...society and strength in general. But it's not always like that. Depends on a person. Not that I don't like my guy being able to protect me, sure.:D
This question is based on observations there are girls who think I'm attractive so I'm not worried about that. It's the subconscious female mindset that I hate so much. Height is in that subconscious thought process.
of course it depends on the person but for most part we are stronger... much stronger especially if we work out. I can bench 315 lbs. and not many girls can even do 100. I'm 3x stronger than a girl in that department.
I always get a chuckle when women say they can protect themselves.
You know what protects single women? Statistics. There are far more women than there are completely shitty, inhumane men.
@biggie I know a short guy who can bench 500. Your point?
But I told you about the short guy I dated.xD What happened then in your opinion? Maybe he didn't attract me at first sight, but he did soon. With his personality. Ever heard of that?:P Talk to girls, tall, short and show them there's more to you than your height.
Dude, strength isn't all. What about martial arts?
In other words try to win with a bad hand.
I want to learn martial arts one day.
I've liked short guys. I've liked tall guys and medium-height guys, too. I think it's just all about attitude for me. With a confident and secure man, I'll feel safe and feminine regardless of height. Just don't let shit people say get to you. Own it, you know?
Thanks. Your right. I'm going to try to forget them and focus on the ones who don't care about height.
Good to hear. :) And most important of all, don't care about your own height, either. 5'0 or 6'0, if you know you're awesome and you like the way you are, other people will too.
I would date a guy shorter them me. I am 5'6 but love to wear heels/wedges and that could easily put me at 5'8 to 5'9 I would have no problem going out with a guy my height or shorter. if he and I get along then I would not let something like height get in the way.
Personality should trump most things.
Yes exactly. I don't understand how people can let something like height stop you from getting to know someone. I can't right someone off that quickly
i agree , personality should be more important than most things
I don't understand the big deal about height either. If I like the person, I'll date them. I don't expect a guy to "protect" me, so he doesn't have to be bigger than me. I'm a really tall girl though, so most guys are just my height or there's a couple inches difference.
Hum, you're like 2 inches taller then me but not every girl dislikes shorter guys. Most of us want a taller, stronger guy to makes us feel protected. Sometimes there are girls who want to be the taller one and feel like the one who comforts the guy. Preference dude, it isn't always up to us, find yourself a girl who doesn't care.
I'm still trying to figure out what that "protected" crap means. Protection depends of one thing heart. Like I said in my question there are tall guys who are pussies and short guys who are pussies. Who's a wimp and who isn't is not determined by height. Sorry to bust you ladies bubbles but there have been many times where a short guy has beaten the crap out of a tall guy.
Preferred (verb used with object): to set or hold before or above other persons or things in estimation; like better.
Discrimination (noun): Treatment or consideration based on class or category rather than individual merit; partiality or prejudice.
If you'd date a guy of any height but "prefer" tall guys then that's one thing. If you'd only date a tall guy then that's another thing.
Your right I'm sticking with the real girls.
Yeah, you don't need to argue to me on how a tall guy might or might not be tough. I get that, clearly you are too offended by that. I'm small myself and people doubt that I can easily kick their ass. I agree with you no need to get all bonkers on me. I understand, just because a guy is short doesn't make them unattractive, weak or undesirable. Height wouldn't really matter to me like I said I'm 5'1 so anything beyond me is tall so its whatever.
I'm sorry. I'll try to keep my cool. Like I told the other person sometimes I see things and it's overwhelming to those who don't care or don't want to believe. I'm sure I'm taller than you but by only a few inches. I think I'm like 5'4 or something.
Nah it's cool, I get you. Yeah that's alright height, nothing to worry about, girls are as shallow as guys. Like I said before just try to find a girl who doesn't care about your height but your heart. :)
I am around 5'3 and have dated plenty of short guys. I think it all boils down to how you present yourself. I dated this guy a couple of years ago who was 5'7 and he would constantly make comments of how short he was and how he got picked on in high school for it. If you're short, you need to own up to it. Work with what God gave you. It's not about height it's confidence in yourself is all that matters.
5'7 as being short? Well I guess.
Yep I thought the same. He was taller than me but in his head apparently he didn't think so...haha
Smh.
I'm 5'8 and I don't consider myself short! 5'7 is not short
Height doesn't matter to me at all. I'm 5'2" and I'd date a guy whether he was 5'2" or 6'5".
Even if you end up with a 6'5 guy it's cool. But attraction should be more than height or height shouldn't be a dealbreaker. Few people see it like you do and it's sad.
Because short guys have this 'short man syndrome' where they need to make up for their height with making their personality more eccentric. And I don't like crazy personalities.
Also, I enjoy wearing heels and I still want to be shorter than my guy while wearing them.
I don't know if I'm crazy but I'm a nice person. Your right though. Some short guys be turnt up. I call that being a banty. Look that up. Banty rooster.
I don't care if a girl wears heels and is taller than me.
well the girls preference also matters.
My doesn't?
*Mine.
Both do, but just because you don't mind doesn't mean she doesn't.
Same way reversed.
I could mine. Should I?
Probably because as a short guy we have people telling us are whole life we can't fight because were to small or short, that we can't make this amount of money because were to short, people making a mockery of us often making us smaller than we are that we can't play sports and some cases dating I don't mean to sound bitter but if you kept an open mind then you can at least try to understand why us short guys feel the need to prove to people that were just as manly as any 6ft2 guy who plays quarterback try having people put you down your whole life for being shorter but I can't expect you understand that's what you call short man syndrome but it is just another word for adversity or the underdog
Johny Foooootbaaaaalllll!!! Russel Wilson and the Sea hawks would say differently about the sports stuff.
And hey I don't have short man syndrome. I thought that had to do with cock size?
I'm 5'4" and I've be with plenty of girls, many of whom were taller. I got told I made up for it by being muscular.
You just gotta deal with it and not let it bother you. You can't tell people what their preferences should be and expect them to give a shit, that isn't how the world works. You remind me of fat girls who complain that men are wrong for not liking them as they are.
Yeah every girl I've talked to likes me. Fuck those who don't though. I just wanted to see how females try to bring logic to bull shit.
You don't even have to be muscular either. I already know. I'm black too yet other races of girls like me. I mean I know that. The point of the question is to again see how they bring logic to bull shit.
It has a lot to do with dominance. A short male doesn't come off as dominant as a tall one. Females want to be with a male that is dominant and will be able to 100% protect her. If a taller male who happens to be bigger height wise and width wise comes after both of you on the street late a night, there is no way a smaller male will be able to do anything about it. It's the same reason why female animals go after the biggest male, so no, answers relating to nature and genetics aren't bullshit. They're the truth.
i am short facula.do you think i am handsome? i wondered your view
Yeah for the most part its true unless the short guy is packing a weapon or is trained in martial arts. Size can still help though.
Height has nothing to do with protection. He just looks tough. It's just like because a guy is fat doesn't mean he can protect you. Protection is based on courage, fighting ability, speed, strength, those kinds of things.
That's I lie if ANY guy attacks me one of us is going to catch a ass whooping and it ain't going to be me just because he's tall. LOL!!! So your a animal?
Just because it's genetics doesn't mean it can't change and it doesn't mean it wasn't inbred into by environment and conditioning. That's the truth.
@atınısevenkovboy a lot of girls think I'm handsome regardless of height.
@biggie90 The tall guy may or may not look intimidating and even then it doesn't mean he'd win a altercation even if it's just a fist fight.
I avoid everyone who even considers the concept of "dominance" in their relation to other humans. They're without exception terrible people.
@Mesonfielde LOL!!! Every tall guy is dominant. Don't you argue!!! LOL!! XD
i'm only 5'6 maybe 7 and that used to depress me to. but u know what? just be yourself man. i'm sure you've seen beautiful girls with guys who dont seem on their level, height wise or attractiveness wise. these guys are themselves and dont give a fuck what they look like. thats what most girls, at least the girls u want, value.
I like feeling small and cute (which isn't a problem because I'm 5'2, but...) I like the guy to be taller than me too because I like to hug him and have him kiss the top of my head, me press my cheek against his chest, and various other things. Me, asking for a taller guy isn't really saying anything though, being 5'2.
Ehhh w/e. I guess I'll stick with the more open chicks? o. O
Because it's a strong sign of shallowness to me.
Well, guys can be considered shallow for wanting girls to have big tits or be curvy or have a big ass. Or be a virgin for them. Or be really pretty.
Go both ways.
Yeah I know. Usually those same guys would take other girls if they can't get those though generally. That's more of preference than insecurity and exclusion.
by the way I bet you don't know who this is.
I don't fall in love with their height, they just happen to be taller than me, which is just something I find nice. I don't care if the guy isn't freaking 6 feet tall.
Uh...
Yeah uh huh.
Well, whatever, it's not like we're dating each other.
Height is a great way to weed out shallowness.
The fact that you base a person's depth on the way they find a person's appearance to be pleasant is also shallow.
If you say so. You'd be surprised to know who this is probably lol.
because when the girl is taller, its like she's the one that is intimidating and 'leading the relationship' , when it should be the other way around...the guys are typically the ones that are the role or 'lead' of relationships. no girl wants to be the one to do that.
I'm not even scared of dying so I'm definitely not scared of someone taller than me. My gender determines if I'm a man or not, not things like height. Should there really be a "leader in the relationship"? Even then it's all a magic trick. A guy could be a tall weakling.
"Leading the relationship"? Yeah, definitely under 18. Someone who thinks a relationship is about being pampered and controlled, you're a Twilight fan aren't you?
@Mesonfielde Hey hey hey. I like redheads LOL!!! She is too young though.
I can't tell you why girls taller then you don't want you...
But, I can tell you why I don't want guys shorter then me...
I'm not into little kids or midgets.
This was my first time asking a question on here and I stated it wrong. I'm short and can empathize with other short guys but my height has never been a problem with girls. How tall are you?
153 cm
Oh your really short. Many really short girls are really sexy.
lol I prefer "fun-sized" to "really short"
I dig fun sized girls!
Yeah I like the term "fun-sized" better. Big and/or great things sometimes come in small packages. :)
So you think short guys are kids or midgets? What do you consider a midget
"but my height has never been a problem with girls"
This is actually along the lines of how I usually answer the short guy questions. My answer in this one was just because I didn't feel like typing the same thing again. But yea, I'm short and I've never considered it a negative with women or anything else. There are definitely a lot of women out there who want taller men, but there are still far more who are OK with it than one guy could possibly date.
No short guys are not kids and midgets. Kids are suppose to be short as they have not finished developing their height. Some kids are tall though. Really it's mean to say midget, I think the "correct" term is dwarf. Being a dwarf is a medical condition.
I think people say that a person who is 4'8 may be a dwarf although I don't know if that's always the case. Dwarfism also has to do with disproportions of the body.
Then there are "short guys" which depends on who you ask but in my case in America most people would consider me short although compared to dwarfs, some kids, and "short girls"(not saying they are necessarily kids or dwarfs) I may be tall. Side note: Your really hot.
*Disregard the hot thing. I thought Betwyn was replying.
@DanAG yeah I know.
I haven't met any adult, or young adult men shorter then me, that were not a "little person"
and, not all little people are Dwarfs..
My 11 year old has passed you in height. I suspect my son may pass you by age 10.
I never said all "little" people are dwarfs. I didn't even use that term.
I also never said that if they are shorter than you that means they are a "midget"(dwarf). What I meant to say is that doctors define it as being 4'8 or shorter, having strangly dispropotioned body parts, but I should have also said that there are probably many other factors. It again is a medical condition and is unnatural. People who are shorter than you are not necessarily "dwarfs". If you mean people who are shorter than you who don't have a medical condition for being shorter than you are "little people" I can agree with that.
Hey, I like shorter guys. I'm 5'3" and it's frustrating dating a guy who's 6'2" 6'3" sexual positions can get difficult to execute, it's hard to hold hands while walking due to the fact that I'm so much shorter than him and I'd have to hold my arm at a ridiculous looking angle in order to be able to do it. There's a lot of good things about shorter dudes. I happen to like them though.
I'm ambiguous, especially when it comes to heightism. Some girls just see the negatives of a guy being shorter than them.
If anything sex positions are better when girl is shorter I'm 6 foot but I guess those 2-3 inches make a big difference..
Well we have to get creative, and doggy takes some adjusting on both of our parts, but things like shower sex and any position in which I'm standing and bending over? Difficult for me if I don't have a pair of heels on. Maybe that's just me though.
Great height deviation can make sex positions difficult no matter who's taller or shorter. Can't y'all see that?
At the same time it can make them better in some ways.
*It can make sex better in some ways
Yeah standing sex is easier with a girl of similar height.
No if she's shorter it can be easy and/or better that way and if she's taller I still can reach her pussy and possibly still pick her up. Plus in some positions if she's tall with long legs that can make for better sex and do you and your partner both stay standing most of the time during sex? That's kind of odd if so.
Well.. In places where there's no other option.. yes
o.O huh?
For me, in my opinion there's no problem with short guys if they're cute I mean :) and In this new society people are very stupid ik.and height is idk...most of the girls think tall guys are sexy, they are..but I like short guys :)
So short guys are sexy too?
YES THEY ARE!
How tall are the guys in India?
I don't know. Both short and tall guys are there. I wouldn't mind dating a short guy if he's cute. There are so many cute short guys here :)
Oh that's good. Middle-eastern girls are very pretty.
Which is your country?
I live in the USA.
You are an American? I mean guys there are usually very tall
Yeah usually. I'm not tall though.
What's your height?
Um like 5'3-5'5 somewhere around that. I don't know exactly.
Your age?
I'm in my 20s.
I don't see a problem with your height. And also nowadays girls are so f**** tall! I'm short :(
Yeah there are some really tall girls out there. How tall are you?
I'm so short, only about 4'9 or something
Oh LOL!!! Yeah your itty bitty.
Haha mm but there are short girls who like only tall guys lol :P
Yeah it's ridiculous. Some try to say it's because of heels and they don't want to be taller. Then I say why you don't want to be taller and they still can't come up with a good answer.
Hahaha lol your right. In this new society height is something like "important" ? I don't know everybody is up to height! Being tall is sexy they say. And it must be really hard for you because your a guy
I mean I can see how tall girls can be sexy, but I also can see how short girls can be sexy. People do what society tells them to do.
It seems like most girls want a tall guy because they the girls automatically think of tall guy equals protection but not always so.
Right. Just because I'm considered short to people doesn't mean I can't protect girls or that I'm not courageous or weak.
*doesn't mean I can't protect girls or that I'm not courageous AND weak.
Height has nothing to do with protection!! A tall guy and short guy will protect their girl same :)
Right right.
"taller than 5'10'' all the way
I have to wear heels and I don't wanna look down when I kiss him. I'm 5'7"
The self centered, shallow, comments continue to flow.
i have nothing against short guys, there are plenty of good looking ones out there. i feel that a lot of Asian guys are around 5'4-5'8 and they tend to like short girls
i'd imagine it'd be emasculating for a guy to be with a girl bigger than him, and i'm comfortable knowing that who i'm with is comfortable. plus i need to be with a guy that, if he ever tried to carry me, i wouldn't be crushing haha
Nah a tall girl is still a girl. A short guy is still a guy.
Guys are guys and women are women regardless of height. Like I have said before I am 5'4" and I am with a bbw who is taller than me. I love her and are about her for who she is.
of course of course -@fun-weird-guy: good for u all about being with someone who makes u happy i'm not against anyone's love
I'm just glad everybody doesn't have a one dimensional view.
It depends most girls may care but I know some that dont care at all. I know girls that date guys that are their height or just maybe a inch or so taller.
You can date taller girls just got to find one that not going to focus so much on the height but who you are as a person
Is that too much to ask for? I don't feel any less a man being with a tall girl.
No it not to much to ask for. Just keep asking. My father 5'6 and my mom 5'8 but it fine with them. So it possible. Some guys just love tall girls.
neither do i. tall girls tend to have great legs
Lol true.
I don't care about height but girls typically do. But I guess your right, I guess there is hope. Somewhere.
Their is always hope. Never give up. Not all girls maybe most. But I dont but im not really tall but im fine with short guy or tall. To me that doesn't matter.