The question here is, what's actually casual? Since there's a a lot of difference of opinions in each and every social circle, I find that argument/request a bit redundant. Why? Well, if you find someone attractive, how does what someone wears matter? He'll/she'll look the same with different shirt on. If you want to get physical, clothes don't matter even more because you'll get naked.
To get you a detailed scenario, she and apparently her female friends don't like that I have earrings on both ears and that I wear slim fit shirts which frequently expose the shapes of muscle. From my point of view, that's casual because I like it and I feel good in it. So the final question would be - if you find me physically attractive, why does it matter what I wear (humor me, even if I look so damn good in it too)?
Thanks for reply, guys.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe it's untrue for you but let's say you are meeting up with a very attractive girl. She wears something frumpy and tacky. You'll be turned off by that but at the end of the day you'll probably still think she's hot.(maybe just very slightly less now)
People look different in different clothes. A fit guy would probably look better in a tank or plain tee than he would in a baggy crewneck sweater. A flat chested petite girl would look better in a flowy dainty dress vs a tight v neck dress. Same logic with guys.
What casual means to me is to not try too hard with your clothes. Slim shirts sound too try hard for me. Try shirts that aren't so tight. But if you're getting the girls you want do what you like right?
Most Helpful Guy
Clothes do make a difference.
About 4 years ago an elderly lady was robbed at a small plaza near me. About 45 min. later I was at this plaza to get some groceries. I' walking into the store and I notice 2 cops, 1 male the other female talking to the victim. I was dressed casual.. How I like. Camo army pants, combat boots, Iron Maiden t-shirt my long black leather jacket and a doo rag that matches the pants.
Anyhoo. As I'm leaving the store the two cops start questioning me about the robbery. The female was being... lets just say a knob. After about 15 minutes of questioning and me denying any knowledge which was true. They have my info and let me go. As I'm leaving the female officer says "You should just admit it. 'Cause we will be back." I just kept walking.
About a month later. This time I'm in a suit, I see these two cops again. We just start chatting. As we're talking the female makes a couple of flirtatious comments. I just smile. A few minutes later I ask them, particularly her, if they recognize me. neither do. So I remind them of what happened a month ago. The female officers eyes got really big and the colour drained from her face. You know why? Because we're standing in the police station where the three of us work.
Obviously this is an extreme story. But it goes to prove that clothes do make a difference.