Here are a couple pictures of me for reference
(Just copy and paste this link): imgur. com/a/OCnJD
Also, before anyone asks, I go to college and work and hang out with friends. I do not consider myself to be socially awkward either because I do have both male and female friends and I have also heard from adults that I am charming and well spoken.
Most Helpful Girl
Your somewhat cute and very fit but you look a little troubled - like you are anxious, worried or have anger management issues.0
Most Helpful Guy
1) Tinder is dumb as hell and isn't good to use as a gauge in any way, shape or form. Don't base your self-image off of what you experience from something silly like that. It's called SELF-image anyway, so really... don't seek an opinion of yourself from external sources to begin with.
2) You act like girls should just flock to guys they find attractive. I'm an attractive dude and thought this same thing... until I realized that if I wanted a girl, I had to approach her myself. To put it straight, girls are still too chicken shit to approach guys and will sit around glancing at him until the world ends. That's it.
3) We have no way of knowing how you REALLY are towards girls you're interested in. What you think you're like vs. what you're actually like could be two very different things. Additionally, you could be doing things that are screwing up your chances and you don't even realize they're happening. Your absolute best resource are your group of friends: ask them to give you pointers, observations, or coaching sessions! That is, unless you're too embarrassed and/or proud to have someone instruct you on what they see is going on?0