There is this guy who is about 8 years older than me, and I really love talking to him, and he seems to love talking to me a lot, too. We both get along very well with each other. I've been told many times before that I act very mature and that I'm quite levelheaded and even tempered. It's exceedingly rare for me to become angered, and I'm a pretty understanding person. The thing is, I wonder if my everyday casual style looks too childish. I usually wear sundresses with cute floral patterns on them or shirts with ribbons and lace or baby doll tops paired with jeans and ballet flats. Sometimes, I'll even wear one of my brother's shirts with some jeans, too. I have a lot of pencil skirts and blouses that go off the shoulder and are a bit form fitting, and I also have a lot of high heels, too. Should I wear those more often, or would that be overdoing it? I kind of want to impress him... I know it seems a bit silly, but I really am worried on how he perceives me and my current style.
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I mean this in the most flattering way, but, when I've read your posts in the past, I could never equate what I read as coming from an 18-year-old. A young body perhaps, yet an old soul to be sure. It comes as no surprise to me, that you're attracted to an older man, and vice versa. Anyway, I wouldn't be too concerned with your manner of dress, if I were you, as you seem to exhibit good taste, and you are obviously thoughtful regarding your attire. Don't look at your youth as a liability, by any means. Be who you are, and over time, you'll grow together as a couple, and this will include all aspects of your lives,2