In a serious relationship, things like potential tattoos or any other kind of permanent changes to ones physical appearance should be discussed and considered. I feel it is each party's responsibility to do what they can within reason to stay attractive to their significant other. My girlfriend knows my stance on lower back tattoos, therefore her getting one be her giving a giant "fuck you" to my wishes.
Sorry, I sometimes forget how you often make yourself sound like a judgmental idiot when in fact it's just your somewhat tactless way of expressing merely your personal taste. I still like you though, Pinky. :)
Then again, if you're in a serious relationship it's a given that you'll try to love and support that person no matter what. If your GF got a tattoo, I doubt it would have anything to do with you... she would just be expressing herself and would expect you to accept that because that's who she is.
The asker is asking for our judgment on lower back tattoos. I simply voiced my personal preference lol I will admit that my opinion of them is a result of a stereotyping. I don't assume all women that have tramp stamps are trashy, however I will see their physical image as trashy.
It's also not for you to say what she does with her body, just like she can't forbid you to get a nipple ring or something else that she might find unattractive. The way I see it, if you're in a relationship, tattooing or piercing a mostly-hidden part of your body has no real bearing on anyone's life but your own.
I agree with that, and I probably wouldn't hold it against you if she got a tattoo and you left her because you didn't respect her anymore. But tell me something: assuming that's you in your picture, if your girlfriend asked you to shave off your beard and moustache and never grow them back because she absolutely hates facial hair, would you do it?
Here's the thing about facial hair- it's hair. It's something that can be done away with at the drop of a hat. Tattoos are permanent. If she did hate my beard, I do feel that she's obligated to at least tolerate it for a certain time period. If it didn't grow on her, then yes, I would get rid of it. Same situation as when my girlfriend wanted to dye her hair blonde a few years ago. I'm not usually a fan of blondes, but I dealt with her being blonde for 6 months or so. She wasn't a fan of it, and neither was I, so she dyed it back.
That's actually one of the reasons my BF doesn't mind lower back tattoos lol. I brought up the idea of getting a small one and he said it would make certain positions even hotter if I had one, but obviously he finds it hot with or without a tat.
Gotcha. Kind of like how it would ruin one of my favourite parts of my guy's body (you can probably guess which one...) if he got it pierced. Hehe.
Thanks. Thinking about it. Like I said to someone else, I'll try henna tattoos and see what happens - they fade after a couple weeks so it's kind of like a trial tattoo lol.
They're big, cheap-looking, colourful... just a random design with no apparent meaning. A small heart or short saying that actually has meaning can be very cute.
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Always trashy. Sometimes sexy as well.
I consider them trashy, but that's just me.
all tattoos i see are trashy
Trashy for sure
Definitely sexy.
Trashy as fuck.
If your S/O got a small lower back tat would it make you respect her less/find her less attractive?
Absolutely.
Really? Damn. You must really hate them. Hopefully you wouldn't go as far as breaking up with her or actually telling her you respect her less...
Trolling as fuck?
In a serious relationship, things like potential tattoos or any other kind of permanent changes to ones physical appearance should be discussed and considered. I feel it is each party's responsibility to do what they can within reason to stay attractive to their significant other. My girlfriend knows my stance on lower back tattoos, therefore her getting one be her giving a giant "fuck you" to my wishes.
@SandPlanet
Nope.
Sorry, I sometimes forget how you often make yourself sound like a judgmental idiot when in fact it's just your somewhat tactless way of expressing merely your personal taste. I still like you though, Pinky. :)
Then again, if you're in a serious relationship it's a given that you'll try to love and support that person no matter what. If your GF got a tattoo, I doubt it would have anything to do with you... she would just be expressing herself and would expect you to accept that because that's who she is.
@SandPlanet
The asker is asking for our judgment on lower back tattoos. I simply voiced my personal preference lol
I will admit that my opinion of them is a result of a stereotyping. I don't assume all women that have tramp stamps are trashy, however I will see their physical image as trashy.
And I like you too =]
I know, that's why I said it's only your way that makes you sound like that.
It's also not for you to say what she does with her body, just like she can't forbid you to get a nipple ring or something else that she might find unattractive. The way I see it, if you're in a relationship, tattooing or piercing a mostly-hidden part of your body has no real bearing on anyone's life but your own.
Part of being in a relationship means you no longer can just do whatever the fuck you want. Both parties have to make sacrifices and compromises.
"It's also not for you to say what she does with her body"
Correct.
A person is also not obligated to stay with their significant other.
I agree with that, and I probably wouldn't hold it against you if she got a tattoo and you left her because you didn't respect her anymore. But tell me something: assuming that's you in your picture, if your girlfriend asked you to shave off your beard and moustache and never grow them back because she absolutely hates facial hair, would you do it?
Here's the thing about facial hair- it's hair. It's something that can be done away with at the drop of a hat. Tattoos are permanent.
If she did hate my beard, I do feel that she's obligated to at least tolerate it for a certain time period. If it didn't grow on her, then yes, I would get rid of it.
Same situation as when my girlfriend wanted to dye her hair blonde a few years ago. I'm not usually a fan of blondes, but I dealt with her being blonde for 6 months or so. She wasn't a fan of it, and neither was I, so she dyed it back.
And fortunately, she loves my beard =]
Fair enough. I could argue that tattoos in certain places can easily be covered with clothing, but I get your point.
My favorite sexual position is doggy style, which is a large part of why I hate them so much lol
That's actually one of the reasons my BF doesn't mind lower back tattoos lol. I brought up the idea of getting a small one and he said it would make certain positions even hotter if I had one, but obviously he finds it hot with or without a tat.
See, I find them unattractive, so it ruins my favorite sexual position.
If you want one, and your boyfriend is for it, I say go for it.
Gotcha. Kind of like how it would ruin one of my favourite parts of my guy's body (you can probably guess which one...) if he got it pierced. Hehe.
Thanks. Thinking about it. Like I said to someone else, I'll try henna tattoos and see what happens - they fade after a couple weeks so it's kind of like a trial tattoo lol.
ALWAYS trashy.
These are called "TRAMP STAMP"
I think it's only if a tramp stamp if it resembles one of these: https://funnie.st/472279/funny-tramp-stamps/20/
They're big, cheap-looking, colourful... just a random design with no apparent meaning. A small heart or short saying that actually has meaning can be very cute.
No ALL lower back tats are tramp stamps in guys eyes