Most Helpful Girl
Don't do it to the point where it seems like you're self absorbed, it's nice to take care of your appearance, but when it gets o the point where it's excessive, then you gotta find a way to slow down. Also no need to please others, dress comfortably and wear what you like. It's okay to want to look nice, but no need to be so worried about what others think 24/7. You live to please yourself, not others
Most Helpful Guy
Don't worry about how women perceive you, just do you. I know it sounds cliche, but I'm in the process of doing that, worrying about what women think of you only stresses you out and compromises your individuality. Just focus on your hobbies, interests, and goals in life, you'll be much happier.