I hate it so damn much. I have never been called hot, sexy, or etc. by any guy at all. all they c me as is Kate.
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Hot and sexy come naturally to very few women. Most of the time it take a lot of work to be categorized as "sexy". Exercise, clothing, make up - that's just the beginning. You have to add charm, confidence, and poise to that as well.
Sexy isn't just a look, either, it's an attitude. For others to perceive it you have to really feel it, believe it yourself. Don't look for validation from the outside, your sexiness has to come from the inside.
Take some dance lessons, get in touch with your sensuality. Join a gym, work up some endorphins, your body's natural happy drug. Learn to look men in the eye and smile. Learn to look yourself in the eye and love what you see.
With some work and self love, you can be a Goddess ... and don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise.