I am only 16, I am certainly not the "barbie" that guys want. I am pretty, although I am a size 16 so I think I am really fat. Will guys grow out of their 'I only date hot chicks' stage?
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To answer your topic's title, yes guys do go for many more things than just looks. It seems that women think all of us are perverts and only want sex. Believe it or not a lot of guys even go for things like intelligence, personality, values, etc.
Now, I'm going to be quite blunt with you and I'm sorry If I hurt your feelings. In high school your chances of getting a date if you are "really fat" is rather slim (no pun intended). But, you also say you are pretty, so your self esteem still seems to be intact.
Being pretty isn't something one can fix, so fortunately for you you already have looks. Weight on the other hand is easily fixable if you are willing to put several hours a week in to exercising and watch what you eat.
You are obviously concerned enough about not getting dates that you took the time to post on this site, so why not just put in the time and lose some weight?1