Do guys mind stretch marks?

Question

sad to say I have them on my hips, thighs, and breast, I love the shape of my body and I think it's pretty nice it's just my stretch marks cause me great insecurity...so guys do you mind?...and girls do you have like me...and what do your bf's think about it?

Subotai · Accepted Answer

Don't worry If I get your clothes off I am not going to stop put it back in my pants and leave you crying and me with a very uncomfortable erection because of any stretch mark. I am gonna admire and make love to your body in all its naked and warm and wonderful glory.  We all ahve blemishes and yet we still wanna see peopel naked, not all people but our girlfriends boyfriends we want to see what most people don't get to see both in a metaphorical and In this case physical sense.  What I am trying to say is I will be too busy trying to control my joy when I finally figure out hoe to unclip your stupid bra and then my attention will be on your titties.  Then  I will no doubt want to peel your pants off.  In case you hadn't noticed Id be staring at your t*ts and ass and in a state of shock over them I would not have time to care about no stretch mark.  Not trying to be crude just trying to let you and all woman kind know how preposterous you can get and how you underestimate what can either be seen as the forgiveness or hornyness or even lovesickness of men.  I guess I can't speak for all men, some moght actually not go out with you over this but the men who don't agree with what I'm puttin down right here can just go home and give themselves a hand if you know what I mean more beautiful ladies for us real man.  I want you to never think of thees love mark thing ever again.  All it does is add character.  Keep that in mind when looking for boyfriends physical looks and sex are too very different things

farmhand99 · Accepted Answer

i could care less about them when me and my wife were dating she had a few bad scars from when she was serving in the military and yeh they were ugly but it didn't change what we do sexually I still like a good strip tease I don't care she has a few scars an 2 gunshots

Summer-Sun · Accepted Answer

I have stretch marks because my weight has been so up and down etc, I have then on my boobs too but they arnt that noticeable...

i haven't had any complaints about them but I do feel self consicous of them.

There are a few products that I know of that help them seem less obvious... Dr. Palmers Coco Butter and also Bio-Oil x

hunnie-bunches · Accepted Answer

here is what I think... I have 4 kids and I have some and I really don't give a f%ck

ArtistBboy · Answer

Each man is different- what I would recommend is doing something proactive about it, rather than worrying that it is bothering someone else. This bothers you, which is enough information to be motivated to change that; here's some things I found out online for you:

Source of information:

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1) Exfoliate your skin, there is a "home-made remedy" listed on the page

2) Find yourself a cream with Retin-A (Tretinoin) then apply that cream daily (It is available by prescription only.)

3) Use products such as Cocao Butter, Olive oil, Vitamin E oil/gel

- Be patient, it will take 2 months to 2 years to get rid of the marks; however, if you follow doctor recommendations, you will reduce these marks until they are no longer "apparent" / visible.

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1) Use Vitamin-E oil on your skin

Learn to love the skin your in, it doesn't both us as much as you think it does- furthermore, if it's your husband, he probably expected that coming with either a child birth or recent weight loss. As such, he probably doesn't mind ^_^

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

originalsin · Answer

I think they're okay...

I have stretch marks too, in fact many of us do!

don't think too much about it, and be confident about yourself.

I used to be really self-conscious about mine,

but my boyfriend saw through me, and told me I look great the way I am, and it's my

sexy attitude that turns him on more than those minor stretch marks, so since then,

I started paying less attention to my stretch marks and appreciated my own body better!

Trust me, it works!

smellylittlecat · Answer

I don't think they mind. And if they do they have some issues because they must be that shallow to care. Sure they may notice it but that shouldn't put a hold on who you date because of some stretch marks you don't have control over.

Cmasterson · Answer

I have some on my hips and its never been a bother.

RobotsWillEatUs · Answer

I have stretch marks.  Either my man hasn't noticed or he doesn't care.  He's never said anything.  Either way, he is ferociously attracted to me.

scottsadork · Answer

some dudes get turned off by them, some dudes dont.     my ex had horrible marks and scars on her from her pregnancy.  didn't bother me in the slightest.  but her friends were always disgusted by them and asked me constantly "dude, how can you hit that with those marks all over her side".  lol none of MY friends cared about them, still thought she was pretty attractive.  just depends on how shallow someone is I guess.  just a few blemishes/scars.  not a big deal

DigitalArchon · Answer

Nothing wrong with a few stretch marks, my wife has some on her stomach after 3 kids and it doesn't bother me at all. Im not really concerned with looking at them more as I am looking at her Face, Breasts and between her legs.

Jan_Classic · Answer

It doesn't look cool, I bet there are cremes and make ups to fix that.

setcheck67 · Answer

Stretch marks don't affect anything about how I find a girl attractive. Personality and her overall body health are.

StarBuckeroo · Answer

Nah, it is pretty natural. . . Girls grow in different areas than guys do. . . I have dated great looking girls, they had stretch marks on their thighs and breast. . IT depends on growth spurts and everything else .. . listen to that guy that gave the super advice on how to use vitamin E and lotions. . . .it will help if you are insecure about it, greatly.

socute22 · Answer

I have stretch marks, I guess it's not that bad, because any guy that's seen me naked NEVER said a word, um they're are ways to get rid of it, though, and I have a question for the guys: WHY don't you like stretch marks?

what-do-guys-want · Answer

Ehhh, every girl gets them hunny. Mine are small silver almst invisible little lines. So if a guy doesn't want to b with you  because of it, then pffft ohwell there's plenty of other non shallow men.

Mellissa80 · Answer

Girls, can I ask you a question? why do you care if men are happy with our stretch marks or private areas color or look, and all those questions that are repeatedly posted here? men themselves are not perfect, why do we comfortably accept them like how they are, then worry about ourselves?

Asher1337 · Answer

Doesn't really bother me, no ones perfect, no one.. Even models have imperfections, they just have the top make up artist to cover it up. :)

DeadKennedy · Answer

no, not a big deal at all

sexyasianboi26 · Answer

For me, nope

Drooogie4 · Answer

I've 100% never had mine mentioned. And they're pretty obvious

antivenin · Answer

I like stretch marks. Somehow they are so sexy to me. The female body just as it comes in it's natural form is wonderful to me. I love it all.

Lizzzzzzzzzzzzz · Answer

I have lots of them. My thighs are the worst. It looks like they were cut open at some point. I would hope that no one would judge me for something like that.