If you have read some of my previous questions you would know that I am in a confused place. If you would look at my profile and read it. I would like to know Am I an attractive guy. Too mushy, just not attractive?. I try and keep in shape but I also have to up dress during the day for my career.
I am not afraid of a bad answer. I can learn from them as well as a good answer. So if you would just take minute out of your day you would be giving another human some help on this rock that rolls: around the sun
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If you're so needy that you need others to confirm if you're attractive, then you're not BEING attractive. Being physically attractive has far less baring on how a woman FEELS about you then you might suspect. Women simply aren't as superficial as most guys.
Learn about attraction (Google it, or read my blog) and you'll discover that attraction isn't a choice. Women will FEEL attraction based on who you're BEING, not what you're saying, or simply how you look.
This means NOT being needy, NOT seeking approval, and NOT basing your life direction on the good opinions of others. Learn to rely on yourself, build your confidence, and stop caring what everyone else thinks so much. Then you'll be headed in the right direction!
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