I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin and I would like to keep it that way until I get married. Making out is the farthest that I've gone. I've never done a handjob, blowjob, or anything oral. I don't think that I'm also ready to do those kinds of stuff.
The thing is, my cousins who are wilder than me makes fun of me and looks down on me for still being a virgin at the age of 17. I just don't get it. Like, what's so funny in still being a virgin at 17. Is sex all that matters to be cool or something? I don't understand them. Why do they think like that? Why is it so funny? It just shows how much more mature I am than them. Am I wrong?
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Your cousins may make fun of you, but any decent, honorable, and respectful guy will appreciate you for sticking to your guns and waiting to have sex. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Having sex when you are in love with someone can be a beautiful thing, but if you have sex just because "it's cool" makes a girl sleezy!1