I'm neat, I'm clean, I'm well-groomed, I'm a creative person, but girls just aren't interested in me because of the way I look. This saddens me a whole lot. I can't change my facial features. What should I do? Will I have to settle also for someone who I'm not attracted to? I feel lost.
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I agree with Professor Zoom. Thank God you're a man, because looks usually don't hold guys back if they have the right attitude (that would be, enjoying themselves and not caring what people think of their looks!).
Also, have you ever considered that you might be being too hard on yourself? Something that always surprises me is how differently men and women view men's looks. Most guys I know have a certain idea of what women find attractive, but the women I know often don't agree.
If you're not having a lot of success with women right now, I suggest you think about whether there could be something other than your looks that is holding you back. Maybe ask a mature female friend, like an aunt or friend of your mom's, if there is anything that could be improved. Maybe your wardrobe? Maybe you seem unhappy because of your feelings about your looks? Maybe you are a quiet person and girls therefore don't have any idea that you like them?0