Me and my ex were in a LDR for a year.
We were together for the first 5.5 months then away for the rest of it.
We loved each other crazily, made a lot of plans on how to make this relationship work in the future and even considered getting married because we thought we belonged to each other and were meant to be.
We had a lot of fight mostly because of his crazy jealousy and selfishness.
He was so controlling and wanted me to cut my contact with my guy friends, but when I ask him to do the same he would say ok then do whatever he wants.
First time he broke up he said he sees no future for us because of the long distance.
He came back after 1.5, gave him a chance to prove he deserves it and to show me his actions for us. He was so regretful and angry at himself and said he would fix everything.
10 days later he saw a pic of me with my friends 2 girls and (1 guy he hated and wanted me to cut my contact with him before) he even saw a comment of my other guyfriend on one of my pics, he posted hearts and I posted hearts back. He got crazy angry and broke up! Said this is all new and made me feel like I was doing things behind him, but in fact that was when he left me already plus they are all just old friends nothing new! And honestly, when he left me the first time he was searching for girls randomly adding them, so obviously he was fishing, but I put that aside to discuss it later with him, but then this second breakup happened. He judged me without a chance he said that's enough go to hell, after a month I saw a comment of a girl who he knew even when we were together don't know who and how, but she said I want you, immediately thought that he might have cheated before and felt guilty and now he saw this about me so he accused me to remove his guilt.
We texted on and off said harsh things mostly him not me, until 2 days ago he said I'm cheap cuz I'm adding people from his country on Insta, he used F, the B, and the N word,
He blocked me from whatsapp and Insta the minute he insulted me.
Do you think he cheated that's why he acted the way he did?
Will he ever regret or come back? I wouldn't ever take him back, but the damage is too deep suffered for months and feels it won't leave me unless he regrets
Do such people get away with their bad deeds without realizing it or apologizing even if it will take months/years?
Do people come back after such bad breakups n bad words