I'm a 21 year old, 6'0", overweight, yet muscular guy. Most think I'm a decent looking , and some think I look like a bigger built Antonio Benderas (sp?). But anyway, I need an honest opinion from the ladies please.
Really, how many girls think like guys when it comes to physical attraction? I mean, from what I used to think is that ONLY men look at the physical attributes of a girl first, and then get to know her character later.
I'm very personable, comfortable to be around with, funny, very intelligent, and down-to-earth. What I keep noticing is that because of me not being under the 'really cute' or 'really hot' category (instead I fall into the "ugh... he's fat" or "definitely [physically] not my type), I don't really have the chance that the other guys do. All because of looks alone!
Is that really true? or do I need to see this in a different light? Please, I need brutal honesty with no sugar coating. So please let me know!
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Yeah there has to be some attraction,eyes,body,face...SOMETHING. The way I see it is "if you can't picture yourself kissing that person,than you can't picture yourself dating that person" .I wouldn't blame someone for not being attracted to me,because we all like certain things some blue eyes some brown,some tall some short...it all goes along with that TASTE.I dated a guy I wasn't at all attacted to ONCE and it blew up in my face,because I broke his heart,i lied to myself thinking the inside was all I needed,but now I relize the truth (at least for me) is that you gotta feel something when you look at them and communicate with them.Shallow or not,its how I feel.You don't seem unnatractive, fat can be lost,ugly cant...so that shouldnt prevent you from finding someone that excepts you for YOU.Goodluck!2