She says she wears it cause its American apparel and its the style. I ask her to be less provocative and a little more conservative. I feel why would she dress like that if she isn't trying to get attention.
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Of course she wants attention from looking sexy. Doesn't mean she wants anything beyond that. If she likes dressing a certain way and you are not comfortable with it you have 2 choices, 1) break up with her or 2) get used to it.
Personally if I had a choice, I would want my partner to feel sexy and good about themselves. The alternative is a partner who stops caring how they look and becomes boring and very much unsexy. My ex-husband dressed horribly and did not take care of himself and he did not inspire me to feel very sexy or desiring of him. A lot of people end up in that same boat. They end up in a long-term relationship, stop going out or dressing up because they are in a relationship and end up looking like hell. No thanks...0