I mean, its not like I wear skirts that go to my knees, or that my sleeves go to my elbows or anything!
Ill give some examples: Most shorts/ skirts/ dresses I wear go to about the middle of my thighs (maybe an inch or two longer). As for shirts, I will wear things that cover my chest when leaning over, and that have straps at least as thick as a tank top.
People describe me as being "cute"... But most of my friends tell me that I SHOULD strive to be seen as "sexy" or "hot"...
I'm not so sure though... I mean... I don't think I have the personality of a sexy or hot girl. lol. I'm more sweet and innocent. I think the way I dress shows that I respect my body, and expect others to do the same.
Am I weird for thinking this way?
Are my friends right? Is "cute" not a good way to be perceived?
Please, what's you're opinion?
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You should wear what you feel comfortable wearing. If you think your clothing reflects the person you are, you know a lot more about you than your friends. If your friends "STRIVE" to look "sexy" or "hot" then tell them to express themselves whatever why they want. You express yourself the way you want to and you certainly don't need to have peer pressure to make you "think" you should be one way or the other.
A big problem with people today is they "STRIVE" to be something they are not and lose sight of who they are. Seems to me you haven't lost sight of who you are. So hold your ground.1