Changing Style?

I would like advice from both guys and girls on this one. I feel like I would fall into the "nice guy" column. The one everyone likes but ultimately isn't attractive. I feel pretty confident about myself but trying to pull off the whole arrogant, cocky/funny type just doesn't feel natural. Do you have any advice on how to find some middle ground? Or perhaps try a different strategy?


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What Girls Said 1

  • I find nice guys attractive. Don't change, because you'll end up being the guy girls want to be with.


What Guys Said 1

  • Since you're already a nice guy, all you have to do is develop a bold sense of humour to be attractive. Watching stand up comedy helps, not for you to memorise and use in social situations but to see the angle at which comedians approach humour.