Do you guys believe in it. Have you been in it? and How do you define it? It's out there it has to be, or I don't know what I'm living for, as far as a soul mate sort goes...
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I've never been in a relationship or even held hands with a girl I liked but I believe it exists. As long as there are men and women who believe it exists, it will. I believe it's not something easily defined. It's more of a state that emerges from the will and relationship of two people. If a man and woman love each other with all everything, that is the time the true love will come into being. It's not something that happens to us. It is something we create. I believe it is the ultimate happiness and the ultimate high.
It's what you, me, and many others strive to have. As I said, I have never felt it, but I believe I will. Call it the intuition of a someone born into a world where partnership and relationships are intrinsic and beautiful. I have no religion. I am an atheist and I don't believe in god. Love is, instead, my religion. I've felt love for others of course, but not in a relationship so I cannot say. All I can say is that there is no other feeling like the longing of your heart for another. The heat and pounding in your chest that stuns you and violently shakes your world. I imagine over time it cools but that the embers will always be there, smoldering with comfortable warmth.
Aren't you the same? I feel there is someone out there for me. I think I will know when I see her. Or perhaps when I speak with her the first time. The feeling that, in the sea of women, this one is somehow different and special. She is for me and I am for her and we both feel it. Every word draws us closer and I stare at her intently to try to determine why I am so enamored but I cannot find anything. But it is something I feel with my entire being and my entire existence.
*cough* or so I imagine. I hope my dreams are not unceremoniously bashed once I have my first relationship. Good look to you and everyone else. :D3