Before you ask, no, I am not trolling. This is a serious question.
I have 32DD breasts and I find them extremely unattractive for the fact that all they do is make me look fat when I am not. I can't wear a T-shirt without looking huge, and I hate wearing tight clothing. I feel like they bring too much attention to me and that they are too big, in a disgusting way. I am also afraid that they will sag and become even more disgusting with time. I don't know if it is just my low opinion of myself or if I really should go through with it, but I've been thinking about getting a breast reduction for quite some time. My only fear is that I will regret it because I'm only seeing the grass being greener on the other side, and I have never had surgery before, so if there are many cons, I don't want to go through surgery to experience them.
So would a breast reduction be a good idea?
Most Helpful Guy
If its because you feel they look ugly no. The fact is that has to do with how you view yourself not how things are. As you said the grass is greener and that's precisely what is happening now. If it was because its causing shoulder and back pain then maybe but as it stands now, if its for nothing more then aesthetics then no I think that would be a bad idea. You need to be able to accept who you are and love who you are and hacking out parts of you is not a good way of going about that. It will cause scarring so now your going to think about how ugly the scars are, it can cause nerve damage so now the sensitivity in your breasts will decrease, many guys like larger breasts so that might result in less attention in which case you might not think that's bad now but later on that might change (lets be honest every one likes to be attractive). So their are things like that, then of course complications could occur after all its still a surgery. Plus it will be expensive. So I would suggest not going through with it0
Most Helpful Girl
I looked into it when I was younger (I'm a solid D) but ended up being too scared as its major surgery. I went to the plastic surgeon and everything.
I've noticed throughout the years though that there are a lot of big breasted women so I don't feel as bad about it now but I always hated the attention and the fact I can't wear cute tops that show bare shoulders (cause I must wear a bra--too big to go without one) and exercise is uncomfortable.
If it'll make you less self conscious I'd say look into it and decide.
My BFF got it done (but she was huge--a G) and has never been happier. In her case I totally agree it was best for her.0