Most Helpful Guy
I find it odd that you assume men don't go through these troubles as well. I have thick wavy hair and I'm a guy. I also happen to live in Florida which is almost always humid, so my hair is almost always luffy and frizzy. Try using sulfate free shampoo which can also be dubbed as "low poo," or only shampoo your hair once a week. What I do is use a cleansing conditioner twice a week. Has worked wonders for me. Also when drying your hair with a towel don't do it so quickly or furiously, that causes hair to frizz from the get go. Instead pat down with the towel and move from side to side, if that makes sense.
Most Helpful Girl
I have curly hair, not wavy. But what helps me, is too keep musture in my hair. I wash my hair well, I put a hair mask and leave it on for few minutes and then I have a leave in conditioner, I just rinse the excess product. And after that I have curly hair creams that retain musture and I just dry it about 80% (sometimes 70% if in a hurry) and leave the other percent to dry on its own. I know that for my hair. It gets frizzy if I don't have a lot musture and my curls are "dry". So that's what works for me. Also watching her videos helped me too: Sayria Jade