How do you come to terms with being ugly?
What Girls Said 3
Bottom line, being average or semi attractive comes with it's own caveats.
As a moderately attractive female... I can tell you that I've gone through phases where I wished I wasn't... because then I'd know that someone was with me for the right reasons.
I've dated guys who were more into other types of 'pretty'. And more importantly... I kept attracting men who wanted me to be a cookie cutter ideal girlfriend... and when I wasn't... I've been categorized a bitch by every guy I had to friendzone just because it was offensive that when he liked me I didn't have the decency to like him back... even though they clearly had a preference as well.
You just have to learn that you're good enough, no matter how you look. Put your energy into the people and things you truly care about... because at the end of the day... no matter who you end up dating... if you're not both being yourselves it's not gonna go very well.
Finding someone truly attractive goes a hell of a lot deeper than what's on the surface.
Do whatever you can to improve your looks. Dress with style, take good care of yourself. I think that plastic surgery is a bad idea unless you have some kind of actual deformity. Some people aren't ugly, just awkward and they come out of it.
Someone for everyone.
What Guys Said 2
Im trying to figure it out myself
I'm sure you're not ugly, post a picture
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