The post said:
If you want to wear it! Wear it!
If you want to wear a crop top? Wear it!
Want to wear short shorts? Wear it!
Want to wear a bikini? Wear it!
I want every girl to have confidence in herself and to love who they are, but I just don't agree with this.
I'm not trying to be mean. And no one deserves to be bullied. I have seen girls in college being mean towards girls that wore certain types of clothing.
Most Helpful Guy
"I have seen girls in college being mean towards girls that wore certain types of clothing."
Really? Guess some girls think they're still in high school... But yeah I understand what you mean. I think it's also just fashion. I used to be super scrawny and there were just certain clothes and styles that would look bad on me because I was scrawny but after becoming active I wear them now because now they look good on me.
Hey congratulations though on losing weight! 40lbs is an accomplishment.
Most Helpful Girl
I used to work in retail and by trade, would have to help women select clothing options. Most were aware of their size and chose clothes that looked good for their body with my help. I was always encouraging and would give them tips on how to show off their specific best features. However, there were some who would insist on picking clothing too small, and too tight, or items that did not show them off in a good way. I would try my best to steer them to clothes that fit or looked good, but for some, there was a a lot of denial happening or just breaks with reality. I mean how else do you describe someone that needs a plus 20, asking for a medium... in juniors?
Your size doesn't matter, thin, average, overweight, tall, short, whatever. Not every article of clothing works for everyone. Those that understand this, look for clothes that make them look amazing and of course, the world responds as such, but those that just wear what they want just because a designer makes it, are missing out and as you intuit, are getting bullied and made fun of which is awful and no people shouldn't do that, but it's life, and you do what you can to help, but if someone wants to continue in that way, than yeah, they can wear what they want and deal with whatever comes their way. It's their life end of the day.