Before you jump at my throat, let me explain.
I'm quite thin. My body type is just like that. It's quite hard for me to gain weight because of my high metabolism. It's natural for me, I don't try and trust me, i wish I could put on a few pounds.
I've heard that guys want more meat on a girl nowadays and it's making me quite insecure. Don't get me wrong, I have curves. I have wide hips and a small waist and definitely have a great ass (as guys have told me before). I just have small boobs and my hip bones are visible and depending on the angle/position, one or two of my ribs are also visible. I also have a full face. My legs are thin but are not sticks, they're pretty toned. My collarbone is also pretty visible.
I just don't know how to feel beautiful when beauty standards are so demanding. So, honest answers please - is thin attractive?
Most Helpful Guy
Hey, we're both in the same boat!
No matter how much I eat, I can never put on weight due to my high metabolism.
Full cream milk every day, running and push ups don't help me either.
Let's just embrace our bodies the way we were meant to be :)1
Most Helpful Girl
It is very hard to ignore the beauty standards. But they're just other people's opinion. I'm thin as well with a rectangular body shape. Which I used to think was too boyish, I can't gain weight either. I have no ass and small boobs, but you have an ass which is awesome! Then again you shouldn't let what guys like or what girls judge determine if you want to feel beautiful. It's not how it should work. You need to take a long look in the mirror and practice loving every inch of your thin body. It's ok not to be head over heels in a few things because we all have our flaws. If you still don't feel beautiful try dressing yourself up how you want or whatever. What makes you feel giddy when you see your reflection wherever you go? Look up how to dress your body shape if you don't know how to. That's what I did. Now it takes some time to try to not care what others think, it really is hard, but don't look at people when you walk through the mall and if you see someone you know of course be nice and say hi but to strangers don't bother. Eventually I really got in the habit of not caring and now I can walk anywhere AND meet people's gazes without feeling insecure. Why? Because I know I'm beautiful in my own way just because I want to feel beautiful. Now I like my small boobs however the ass part I'm not happy about but I started to workout because I want to see a small bumb in the back when I check myself out in jeans. You're beautiful.1