- Curves/thick body
- Skinny body
- Long hair (heard this one matters?)
Guys, what is the ABSOLUTE one thing a girl needs to be considered "datable material"?
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I wish you would have replaced popularity with other.. I would choose other. Interest and enthusiasm are the most important things to me. A lot can be built from a positive attitude.
Overall every single one of these contributes to if I like a girl or not, she just has to not be overweight, not an eye sore, healthy, good hygiene, and not a total bitch that spreads rumors and shit (no drama queens). Most girls are this way but just one of the biggest deal breakers for me is when a girl spreads rumors and lies about other people or thinks she is better than someone.
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There is no "one singular thing" that makes it so. If I were to sum it down, perhaps "there's something more to her" would be a good start. Of course physical appearance is used as the immediate way of attraction, but that alone does not signify their worth, if their personality doesn't follow suit.
Modesty, Honesty, Integrity, Personality. I'm not that interested in a girls looks. I need to know that I can count on her when I need to.
she should share my love for anal. Apart from that, as long as she isn't obese. I prefer skinny girls, but I'll happily date a girl on the chubby side who likes anal over a 'bombshell' hottie who doesn't.
Intelligence. I can probably negotiate virtually everything else, but I am not bothering with an idiot.
1. Pretty face.
2. Fit body (toned but not overly muscular).
3. Long hair or medium haircut.
4. Natural beauty (no makeup or just a little bit of face powder or concealer).
None of these are necessary. Emotionally healthy guys are attracted to emotionally healthy girls.
What? Voted for B? But none of these are most important.
A brain. The ability and desire to NOT behave like an air-head, her own opinions and an open mind to discussions.
None of the above.
She needs to be smart, ambitious, and a good person
A and D for me xD as it was my SO who taught me how to braid lol cause I wanted to impress my niece's. And she is fit now ever since I steered her towards improving her diet and has gained back her normal weight. As well accomplished her goal how much she can carry on her back. (Ugh not exactly very happy about the goal. xD) But it was to be able to pick me up and give me piggyback rides.
Plus guys like girls who have at least some meat on her. As I'd probably be hesitating to a level that would be visibly noticeable if my SO was skinny. Plus curves and a healthy fit thick body also is more likely to be able to handle carrying a child.
Popularity is totally irrelevant.
I would not date a woman with short hair. It has to be at least shoulder length.
There simply isn't just one thing that makes one datable.
Physically, abs of finely-tempered steel would be a good start. But that really is just that; a start.
Past that, they would need to have an interesting and inspiring personality, and be independent. I've said it before, and I'll say it again: Independence means you have the *ability* to fight your own battles, not that you absolutely *have* to.
In short, a good mix of intelligence, health/strength, resolve, and humour is what makes someone datable, in my opinion.
popularity is irrelevant. While appearance matters, her personality needs to be good too.
All i want is a girl who is loyal, can cook a mean dinner and has a fat ass. If i can have her, ill give her everything
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