I'm Socially awkward and not very confident. I've been told that I seem very threatening with a "don't talk to me" vibe, how do I change?

I'm Socially awkward and not very confident. I've been told that I seem very threatening with a This is a normal kind of look for me.
Would this be considered threatening, or non approachable? If so how do I become less threatening, and more welcoming and open to friendships. It's posing a problem for me, and is a tad bit detrimental to my state of confidence and security.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • You and I would get along I have that same face everyday haha

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes girl I understand. I used to do that all the time. I was always just wearing my resting face which to people I appeared scary and angry. Start smiling more people find it easier to talk to people who are happy and positive. Maybe start approaching some people or just a little hi when you walk past and smile.

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    • I have tried the "hi" thing and multiple times they just look at me like I'm weird and I kind of just want to curl up in a ball in my room and never leave again. Can't I just communicate with people online? Ahhhhhhh People are scary! Especially teenagers! It doesn't help that the group of teenagers I'm working with are all older than me... And I'M THE AUTHORATIVE FIGURE!!! AHHHH directing is hard!!! They are all so terrifying! I mean they are all super cool teenagers and I'm like this awkward homeschool student! How did you get over it? I actually smile a lot! I just don't like my smile so I don't have pictures of it.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Yeah... you look like you want to kill yourself
    Smile a little

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    • Funny story, I was diagnosed with depression a little while ago after going to the ER at 2:00am so... Yeah, that would be accurate.

  • Remove the dog tag

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  • really crucial and easy advice give a big smile

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  • do ypu live in utah? swear i seent you before.

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    • I live in Tokyo, so I doubt that the person you saw was me :)
      Although they say that every person has a doppleganger! Even though the chance of meeting yours is 0.007%, and even if you do come across them the chances of recognising them as your doppleganger are slim.

What Girls Said 15

  • You are very pretty with lots of natural beauty. There isn't much to say except a touch less black, and smile more. The glow in ur face with enhance ur smile 😊

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  • just wan to say you look really cute. maybe try smiling more or in class, talking to a bunch of different people

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    • I'm actually homeschooled so... But I have a lot of conversations with myself and I think i can be awkward in a charming way at times! although usually I'm a smart-ass and make sarcastic quips...

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    • Aww! Thank you!!
      I'll try the smiling thing! Now if only I had a nice smile uhuhu (^u^*)

    • your welcome😊

  • Don't change your look for anyone. You look totally gorgeous with the choker and jacket, though you should show a little smile here and there.

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  • Luckily for you, there is a simple cure for that: showing a smile

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  • All you need to do is start socialise with friends and always keep a smile on your face at least you would look that threaten after all and scary too

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  • Maybe smile a little but you don't look intimidating so it's probably just the people your asking

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  • You have a resting bitch face. Try smiling more.

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  • Smile more

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  • Smiles will help

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  • Remove the dog tag and smiling would be a start

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  • I would approach you

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  • You shouldn't change for anyone.

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  • it is their opinion, dont listen to them

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  • you look fine

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  • I don't know.. I guess when you stop thinking like that about yourself everyone else will see it in you.. i don't see anything wrong.. maybe you need to smile a little bit that's all.. I mean only when I read your comment about yourself I felt it.. you shouldn't convince yourself with this kind of stuff 🐺🐱

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