How can I make myself beautiful?

I was never one to wear makeup or weave because of how I was raised. I'm going on 27 and I'm tired of being on the ugly end of the stick. I have people say that I'm ugly and I have some people say that I'm beautiful so I'm very confused. I wonder who's telling the truth... the people who call me ugly or the ones that same I'm beautiful.

It just hit me hard today because I was driving and I made a mistake and made someone else on the road mad. He yelled out, "with yo ugly ass!" I'm very tired of (mainly black men) telling me that I'm ugly. My own baby's father never even compliments me. I'm African American myself.

I've been fed up with my baby's father about his ways and sometimes I feel like I'm too ugly for another man to want me and to top it off, I have a baby. I know I shouldn't be worried about these things but I am. I acknowledge a lot of beautiful women and here I am with bad skin and being called ugly.

Any advice as to how I can beautify myself without being unrecognizable to my true look?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • This question is kind of meaningless without a picture. What can anyone suggest? Get to a healthy weight? Get healthy exercise? Wear a moderate amount of makeup? Don't go crazy with extensions?

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    • Well I don't want anyone to see how insecure I am if they know me in real life and happen to use this site.

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    • Thank you

    • Thank you for the MHO. I hope you work on feeling better about yourself. If there's anything I can do to help feel free to PM me.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I am a black female. And yes black men especially can be hard on black women. a lot of black men have issues of their own but do make the way they feel dictate your happiness. Its so easy to let others opinions of you get to you and then you doubt yourself. You have to feel it in your soul that you are the most beautiful person inside and out. Your skin can be cleared with proactive or a good skin care regime. But regardless if you dont decide to clear your skin just know that a lot of people especially blacks are just very judgmental of each other as is.

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    • You're very right about that. Black people can be very harsh on each other. It hurts to know that out own people feel good about downing each other. I guess I have a lot to work on because people judge the beautiful and the ugly.

    • And you're beautiful by the way

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What Guys Said 2

  • as I keep saying here try to find a zone where you feel comfortable. do not try to please other people, if they think you're ugly screw them. value who likes you the way you're

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    • Yes that's true. I felt like I was at that good realization at one point in my life. I was living myself but I'm back to insecure

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    • i hope you succeed ;)

    • Thank you!

  • Beauty is an inside job

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What Girls Said 3

  • Man you are probably very beautiful and you sound like a very beautiful person I don't know I don't really think looks matter so much if you are hot and not nice you are ugly but if you are beautiful and beautiful inside you are gorgeous

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    • Thank you. Your comment actually made me feel a lot better. It's getting harder to be kind to people who down talk me like that guy in the car but thanks again.

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    • No problem:)

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  • What about changing how you dress? Wearing something more classy, something that is elegant. Like a form fitted black turtleneck and leather leggings, or something like that?

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  • are you overweight? if not and you just don't do makeup i can totally help! message me if this is the case. i'm kinda a beauty guru myself i can give youu all types of tips

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