i was wondering because my mom keeps telling me to wear my hair natural but everyone seems to hate it. its too hard to maintain for me. im too busy to deal with it so thats why i always wear weaves. what is your opinion on it?
Most Helpful Guy
There's always gonna be people that will dislike something you do, wear, or the way one of your features is, so if you're not wearing your natural because of what other people may think, then you're doing the wrong thing.
If it's because you're too busy to take care of it, then ok, I can understand that, but don't do it because you wanna please others. You're wearing a weave, which may be something that some people like, but there's people that prefer your natural hair, and dislike weaves. So whatever you do, there's gonna be people that dislike it, and it's ok, because we're all different, everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
I personally am not a fan of very curly hair, but I know of many people that are a fan of it. So what are you gonna do? Are you gonna fake it all your life for people like me, or are you gonna go natural because of you?
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Most Helpful Girl
I'd only tell you to straighten/weave/idk it if it was easier to maintain for you. I had a super curly afro situation going on and yeahyeah natural beauty blah blah that shit was hard to maintain. I'm way happier now.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE