Serious question. When I get dressed in the morning I dress for me. If it flatters me and my hair looks good TO ME I leave happily. I have horrible self esteem and over the years I found myself much more content worrying less about how others saw me. I see HUNDREDS of questions a day concerning how others think they should look and I'm curious is anyone agrees with me on only worrying about my opinion of myself.
Most Helpful Guy
Nah, cause the kinda pieces i wear are already "out there", its not like your regular everyday thing. So i know ill get stared at or receive any (unwanted) opinions
As long as i feel good and look good and not like a total jerk, im satisfied. Plus im ready for any laughter, cause at the end of the day i still get the most compliments from randoms on the streets, who do understand fashion (and girls really love it to)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
A lot of people seem to feel that way.
Personally, I just dress how I want to dress. What I like , and feel comfortable in. Others people's opinions of me are irrelevant.
No matter what you wear or how you look , you'll be judged. So that's why the only opinion that should matter... is your own
Obviously I'll take other people's opinions or views into consideration on some rare occasions . For example, if I went to a funeral i wouldn't be pig-headed and wear just anything I wanted. I'd dress appropriately out of respect for the family of the ceased person. I'd dress how they'd expect me dress at their loved one's funeral.
If I went to some sort religious ceremony of a friend , I'd wear appropriate clothing. I wouldn't want to offend anyone. Just out of respect for their religious beliefs really.
I don't care about people's opinions of me , but I do care about their feelings That's why in certain situations I'll take peoples feelings into account. ie like a funeral etc and wear what's appropriate for the situation or environment I'm going into0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE