Most Helpful Girl
I have met handsome/good looking men with fucking shit attitudes & personalities. Looks is a plus point but that's not everything. If he cannot deliver on being a (good) human being, he's not worth it!!!
Most Helpful Guy
Outward qualities are the most important for attraction as I see. By outward, I mean qualities you can observe and sense about a person without knowing them intimately for months or years, e. g., and often a lot of things you can pick up to a good degree just on meeting them for the first time.