Most Helpful Guy
This is something I have been wondering, and I need help with something relating to this.
my girlfriend has had low self esteem for many years before I met her. How she sees herself (ugly) I don't see at all and think she is beautiful.
She dresses very plain in the same type of clothing, no makeup, doesn't care too much how she looks because she feels she has nothing to show off.
I want to tell her to try some new clothing, because she will look even cuter in some new styles, it's that she lacks confidence in trying on new stuff, she isn't used to being called anything positive.
How can I convince her to try some new things to show her that she is still beautiful? Should I buy her new clothing and surprise her, or will she see that as "trying to change her"?0
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Most Helpful Girl
If altering your appearance makes you feel better, go for it. What matters is that YOU go through life happy. But if the insecurity stems from the inside and not from a particular physical feature you're dissatisfied with, you can alter and alter but you'll never become secure.4