Most Helpful Girl
maybe go back to your piercer to ask for some help
but you can still soak them at home with some warm saline solution and then drain the pus away from your earlobes pressing on it
and you can add some wound wash to clean it
what kind of jewelry you have in your earlobes?
also make sure your jewelry is good quality and not some cheap sterling silver or low grade stainless steel.
and make sure that the earring post/or piercing jewelry is not too tight (it might be pressing too hard against your piercing and not letting it "breathe" and not accommodate for swelling) or too long (it might be moving too much)
i am someone with several ear piercings.. just saying.. am sharing personal experience with you