Men, do some of you really prefer slightly chubby girls?

Slightly chubby. Not over weight but soft and jiggly here and there.
I've always liked to keep thin and in shape. But I honestly think that most girls have decent bodies because I think both skinny and softer girls look nice in different ways.
I just like the fashion that suits a skinny frame haha
I was underweight, and I've since put on some fat. My husband says he likes my body better now and that he wouldn't complain if I gained even more weight. He says he will let me know when he thinks I should cut back on snacks, though.
Sometimes I struggle because I'm used to being rail thin. I'm sprouting the boobs I was always waiting for in high school and it's uncomfortable! But I'm getting used to it. I fill out clothes better and people say I look my age now (21) as I was always frustrated being mistaken for 16.
However, part of me still thinks he's just being supportive and nice. I can't get understand how he wouldn't like a flat belly and toned legs. My tummy is soft and my legs jiggle.
Of course you'll tell me to do what makes me happy but having a body my husband likes makes me happy. There isn't anyone else I'd like to impress, but being a normal person I also like the ego boost that having strangers check you out gives. Harmless, but confidence boosting.
So can I feel comfortable to belive him? Do some of you really prefer a softness over fit and thin? I'm still healthy. I eat well, I do yoga and a bit of light weights but nothing too extreme.


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  • Don't you trust him? I know I myself like larger thighs, chubby isn't something unattractive it's common that some girls are abit chubby and I wouldn't mind it a single bit if I love her, I lover in every way possible. I think you should trust him, because thats a part of being in love, that you trust each other.

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  • some do like heavier girls it depends on the guy. the guy i'm into right now said that's what he likes.

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    • I feel better at thos heavier weight. Particularly because so many clothes that looked strange on me before look good now. And my husband seems more enthusiastic sexually tbh

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What Guys Said 9

  • If he says you please him, then you do. Don't go looking for deeper meaning when there isn't one. I believe there's a GoT quote that goes something like "Fucking skinny girls is like drinking out of a puddle; not I won't drink out of a puddle, mind you. But if I'm real thirsty, I'll go for the river." I probably butchered it but whatever.

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  • I like thighs wider than butt (squats, cycling can cause that). I enjoy round shoulders. Just make sure to work out so it doesn't all go flabby with age.

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  • I'm happy reading this... skinny and thicker being attractive in different ways, I couldn't agree more. And yeah soft is well soft. There are women who are healthy, fit, but look chubby. It's the best combo to me

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  • That's quite a long post but at the end all its great he supports you.

    As for my preference... i like thin and toned. Softness and and jiggle isn't as desirable.

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  • I don't mind her being slightly on the heavier side.

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  • I think you should trust yourself.
    His word is his bond. I'm not sure why he would give you false hope when he clearly accepts you the way you are...

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  • I prefer Athletic girls, if they have junk in the trunk that's muay sexy

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  • yes, i love it

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  • Women are supposed to be a little chubby. Your body is built to store more fat for long winters when you are bearing children. I think most guys like girls soft and jiggly.
    Peak condition is a girl who is fit but still retains fat.
    To me at least, its a super big turn off when I can see a girls pelvis bones and ribs when she is laying down or stretching.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Yes some men prefer a girl with meat on her bones

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  • they dontlike chubby they like curvy

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