I've always liked to keep thin and in shape. But I honestly think that most girls have decent bodies because I think both skinny and softer girls look nice in different ways.
I just like the fashion that suits a skinny frame haha
I was underweight, and I've since put on some fat. My husband says he likes my body better now and that he wouldn't complain if I gained even more weight. He says he will let me know when he thinks I should cut back on snacks, though.
Sometimes I struggle because I'm used to being rail thin. I'm sprouting the boobs I was always waiting for in high school and it's uncomfortable! But I'm getting used to it. I fill out clothes better and people say I look my age now (21) as I was always frustrated being mistaken for 16.
However, part of me still thinks he's just being supportive and nice. I can't get understand how he wouldn't like a flat belly and toned legs. My tummy is soft and my legs jiggle.
Of course you'll tell me to do what makes me happy but having a body my husband likes makes me happy. There isn't anyone else I'd like to impress, but being a normal person I also like the ego boost that having strangers check you out gives. Harmless, but confidence boosting.
So can I feel comfortable to belive him? Do some of you really prefer a softness over fit and thin? I'm still healthy. I eat well, I do yoga and a bit of light weights but nothing too extreme.
Most Helpful Guy
Don't you trust him? I know I myself like larger thighs, chubby isn't something unattractive it's common that some girls are abit chubby and I wouldn't mind it a single bit if I love her, I lover in every way possible. I think you should trust him, because thats a part of being in love, that you trust each other.
Most Helpful Girl
some do like heavier girls it depends on the guy. the guy i'm into right now said that's what he likes.