For example if they said "You should cut/color your hair." or "You'd look better if you bought these and that kind of clothes". Would you take it as a suggestion or would you feel insecure or offended? Where does the line go between helpful suggestions and offensive advice?
HOX! I'm not talking about "You should lose weight" or "you should get a nose job" type of things, but mostly style choices.
- Yes, I would get offended.Vote A
- No, I wouldn't get offended.Vote B
- Depends on what they said.Vote C
- Other, please elaborate.Vote D
Most Helpful Guy
Well it depends on the person who suggests me making these changes (mostly my mom says for my hair and I am ok with that.
But for clothing I cannot change my style just because someone didn't like my clothes because the style shows my likes and perception of art and energy (for example colour combinations)(style combinations: pants/shoes etc how well they look together)
For the things about body it could hurt If I had really ugly nose/chin and people said you need a nose/chin job hopefully I think my nose/chin are ok and it is enough for me looking myself in the mirror and decide whether I need or not
I think there is nothing else than bad looking nose and chin make someone feel insecure or offended.
But anyway all people knows that noone should feel uncomfortable or offended because of their genes that they couldn't choose.
I think clothing and hair style something shows who you are so just get some opinions but always do what you wanna do
Most Helpful Girl
Depends... babe, I love it when you wear those cute shorter skirts instead of those long ones that go to the floor... or babe, you look like an old hag in those floor length skirts. You should dress your age and try to look sexier for me.
The former, okay, I might try it. The latter, f--k you dude.2