I feel SO uncomfortable in heels, so I've decided to stop wearing them. I wear low wedges occasionally but that's it. I now feel like I'll come off as less sexy and less put-together when I go out. But it's better than looking ridiculous struggling to walk in heels lol.
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I personally think that no woman can look 'dressed-up' in flats but they can look 'stunning'. You can always look stunning, girl!!! I get that heels lift a woman up and consequently make their legs look better and more attractive so I see your point of considering yourself to be less sexy. Some men would agree too. But all I want to say is that true sexiness lies in your appreciation and opinion of yourself and it shines from the inside out too. Therefore don't worry about the need to wear flats!!! Your health and ability to strut your stuff is far more important than increasing your height and toning your legs for if you can't walk, what do you even need legs for? Wear whatever YOU feel comfortable in. A guy has to like you for who you are and if you can't wear something then don't bother trying because it will decrease your opinion of yourself. God made you beautiful as you are and you don't need heels to be 'sexy' or 'stunning'.1