Most Helpful Guy
Not necessarily a confidence problem, but I'm wondering how you look with hair that long. It could be great, but super long hair doesn't look good on everyone. When grown women are wearing the same style they wore in Junior High, they can look like overgrown children. If you have friend who's looks you admire, ask her what she thinks.
Most Helpful Girl
It's just ridiculous for someone to assume you lack confidence because you've maintained your natural hair color. Ridiculous.