But outisde the mirror I feel insecure and ugly.
Most Helpful Guy
I feel confident with my body. I work out to be stronger but slightly better looks is a positive side effect. It is only when i get intimate that some insecurities whisper in my ear. Thankfully, i am a logical thinker and inderstand that someone was willing to concider sleeping with me in the past. If we are litteraly undressing to get "intimate" (when my insecurities occure) then the risk of them backing out because of how my body looks is very low. Even tho i feel insecure, i know for a fact that it does not matter anymore and there is no reason to worry about it.
Most Helpful Girl
I certainly have my moments of "ugh ew" while seeing myself in the mirror... but I also have moments when I think I look nice. I don't stare in the mirror for hours though lol