Me (17) and my boyfriend (21) have been dating for 4 months now. I've spent every single day in the past 4 months with him. I've never been happier in my life, up until 2 weeks ago. He came back from vacation and everything was perfect. I love him and he loves me. Then the next day he started to ignore me and then a week later he tells me he needs a break from having a relationship and that he didn't just stop liking me but it's hard for him right now? It was out of the blue.
I was the perfect girlfriend. Faithful, thoughtful, sweet, caring, kind, I always put him before myself. I baked him baked goods to cheer him up. If he had a bad day I'd come over in sexy lingerie and a platter of cookies. I swear to you I was perfect. So why is he acting this way now? Do you think he'll realize this is a mistake and he'll come back to me? Apparently he is a 'player' and likes to keep his options open, but if he is, then why would he bother being in a relationship with me for 4 months? especially the summer? help me! I'm even not going away to college anymore because of financial issues.
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no .. well let me tell you you said it right there ...
" was the perfect girlfriend. Faithful, thoughtful, sweet, caring, kind, I always put him before myself. I baked him baked goods to cheer him up. If he had a bad day I'd come over in sexy lingerie and a platter of cookies. I swear to you I was perfect" and that is the reason !
ur not expected to be perfect for GODs sake ... your not supposed to put him ahead of YOU because guyz will take girls like that for granted and will garauntee that you will never be able to leave him ... ... first of all : you are supposed to love yourself more than anyone and anythng ... you come first then your frndz then the person you love ... do not make your life all about him .. have your own life show him that you don't depend on him and you dnt need anyone to live ... well from time to time remind him that you love him and appreciate him and never over do it ... DONT BE CHEESY guys don't like that at all ... be strong .. be your self be supportive but never stop any activity that you have for him or any guy ... don't give too much .. just wait and see what he gives you ... ( read the book , why men love bitches and ull know what I mean ) and also read ( act like a lady think like a man ) ... you can use that with every relationship with him or any other guy ...
as for that guy ... IGNORE HIM TOTALLY ... and be happy and don't show him that your life stopped because he is not here anymore ... show him that your powerful ... and when he sees that he will come to you and don't you forgive him easily ... because this is You and no one messes with you :)0