IS this myth true or just something us dark girls tell ourselves. are white guys afraid to ask us out because they fear were going to turn them down...i see them starring and smiling but they NEVER end up coming up...is it a case of look but don't touch or fear? HELP... I think they're so cute but scared they'll totally turn me down too?
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Lol! iv been answering this question too much recently :P, no its a myth, its more likely something that applies to individuals, I doubt its really possible to catagorize peoples likes and dislikes based on appearence, same with women, it just comes down to a matter of personal preference and to some degree I believe influence is a big factor as some people fail to grow past their influences as a child. I could be wrong on this so don't quote me but I think for the most part some white mens hesitation to black females for the most part are from those within the u.s., there seems to be more of a bad social stigma attached to datign black women as opoosed to other countries but I could be wrong.
I have no problem with dark black girls, to be honest I never really viewed them any differently, I suppose to some guys if they are thinking along simple terms they might assume she won't be interested, some times the guy might purely not have an attraction and vice versa, perhaps the ones you seen might not be so sure, you shoudl probably try to give off more than suttle hints to them1