Does getting a boob job make you seem insecure?

If people know you've had work done, do they think you're insecure?

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  • I will tell you straight up I am biased because I just don’t like them and that is just me. Can’t explain why either for sure, just genetic I guess. But reasons I mostly hear from women for getting them are for self esteem or feeling insecure and there might be others like getting a man (I did hear that one personally). So it is logical to assume that if a gal has a boob job she must have got it for those reasons most likely. On the other hand, when I see a gal with small ones and she is very secure and self confident then I am impressed with, she truly never cared what others thought of her boobs and she is her own person and not easily influenced. I have been accused of being narrow minded for this opinion elsewhere so I bow and accept that state of mind.

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    • You are forgetting that boobs go flat when a girl lies down. Pornstar fake boobs keep their shape when a girl lies down. That’s the reason I’d consider getting them.

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    • But small boobs mean no boob f***ing.

    • @Kimmy88 Well I do occasionally go with a girl with some big naturals; maybe she might be feeling a little be lonely.

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  • Not at all. You just wearing make up doesn't make you insecure, does it?
    That's bullshit, we're living in the 21st century, I guess it's pretty normal to improve yourself. For me it just crosses a line when it turns into addiction and you just modify your whole self.

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    • Also we just have one life and one body, why should it be wrong to make the best out of it for yourself!

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What Guys Said 29

  • Yes, and the truth of the matter is that is always the case. Now the boob job may help. But they wouldn't have gotten a boob job if they were secure with their body before hand. A girl doesn't get a boob job who is already secure with her body, then decides she wants larger breasts. There's just no other motive.

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    • That's not the case at all. Not every woman who gets a boob job is insecure. That's like saying every girl who wears makeup is insecure.

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    • @misstalia_95

      Mastectomy is removal of breast tissue.
      Breast reduction is removal of breast tissue.
      Obviously the reasoning behind the two cases are different, but...

      The topic the asker made was specifically about breast enlargement.

      My comment was regarding the question asked, which again... was about breast enlargement.
      Then you chimed saying how my statement was so ridiculous and the example you gave was... breast reduction. Which isn't even the topic. Mastectomies are irrelevant to the topic at hand.

      I don't know if you missed that or just ignored it. Either way. I say again. Give me another reason or an example and you'll be able to make a better case, than "that's ridiculous" with no reasoning behind it. This time, just remember the topic is breast enlargement. Not breast reduction of any kind. Being done for medical reasons doesn't suddenly make it not breast reduction.

    • @misstalia_95

      If you misread the conversation, then that's fine. But what you've said regarding the actual topic does not make any sense at this time. It would make sense if the topic was regarding all forms of breast surgeries, enlargement and reduction. But it doesn't. Otherwise I wouldn't have posted the comment that I did.

  • Think of it this way if women say something negative they are probably being catty. If men say something less than positive you can look them in the eye and KNOW for a fact that if any one of them could get dick enlargement procedure they would. So do what makes you happy

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  • Potentially it could be an indication of a woman feeling inadequate or insecure. However, you can't completely understand a person based on one decision that they've made. Not all women are going to have exactly the same motivation for cosmetic surgery. There is a difference between wanting to enhance something that you are mostly satisfied with versus feeling like you are not good enough.

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  • yep. Especially the big pornstar ones... "oh great now you look fucking stupid.' so much for strong this empowered that. Its like the reverse of fat women who get gastric bypass surgery after years of violently defending their weight as beautiful and everyone is just jealous.

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  • Not just seem, confirms it. Your identity is really locked up in your tits? Really?
    Just make sure you pay for them yourself, and not some guy you'll dump shortly after.
    by the way, nice tits.
    Oh, and only some of the guys like them, they're not like real tits at all.

    I have to laugh at the quip, "Are they real? They're real if I can touch them." LOL

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  • Obviously. Only women who wanna either look bigger and better than other women are insecure. There are other ways she could outsmart her competition but the dumbest and the easiest choice would be to get her boobs bigger which shows she is dumb and insecure.

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  • I mean, why else would most women get a boob procedure? Rarely is it for a health reason, rather it’s for a superficial or self esteem issue. Most times their breasts are fine and are just comparing themselves to other mediums.

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  • It isn't a matter of thinking you are insecure, it is a matter that they don't look right. Small and real is way better than fake of any size.

    For those women who are over 50 with empty bags or have had mastectomies, it is fine.

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  • Yes, most of the time it does make them seem insecure. Every once in a while you'll meet a woman who genuinely needed one, and then it majorly improves her appearance because then she feels beautiful and confident. Breast Augmentation Surgery is the wrong choice for 70% of women.

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  • Maybe a boob job is a symptom of underlying insecurity but it is far fetched to say that all people who have boob jobs are insecure. I look well beyond any surface change before making a call.

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  • Why else would you want a boob job other than a insecurity. You look in the mirror and don't see what you like. That being said, if it makes you feel better about yourself and more confident, by all means have the surgery.

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  • If you had a disease, accident of some kind, were harmed by someone else, it was for back reasons then I understand. If the main reason you do it because you think it will be the solution to you being happy or for attraction then I do nit understand.

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  • This would apply to women who are considered to be a "Carpenters Dream" which means a girl flat as a board and they feel bad that they really do not have an Tit's and many men out there today do not like a woman without any Tit's as in their mind they think if they went to bed with this woman there would be no Tit's to suck on and other men who like to "Tit Fuck" will not able to do that since there are no Tits to push together then fuck them.

    Many women who I have known that got a Tit job were very happy and very secure about doing it.

    In the photo attached is a photo of a woman with an almost perfect set of Tit's that are great to suck on and to be able to "Tit Fuck" really good as well...

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    • This Boobies look like, they are singing, "Put me in your mouth, i taste delicious".

  • It depends on why to some degree. Some women have reductions to help save the weight on their back, some have augmentations to correct serious issues like a lot of asymmetry. Other women do it to correct for a masectomy and things like that. I think all those things are perfectly reasonable to help people look normal.

    If you're just doing it because you want to boost your ego or get more attention from men then yes it does make you seem insecure, and probably worse than that it signals to me as a man, that you're more interested in attracting a shallow man , and in turn that tells me something about your personality. Bit of a red flag if you ask me.

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  • Yes and since I know some of girls personally that got a boob job every single one of them was insecure. And by the way not all of guys are into boobs. Some guys including myself are more into booties and the best thing is that you dont need any plastic surgery for them and can build them with squats. And from my experience a lot of guys who are really into big boobs tend to be douchebags. So if you get a boob job you are more likely to attract douchebas while the good guys will usually asume you're high maintenance.

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  • Not necessarily insecure, but definitely victims of society's warped views on beauty and women.

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  • i dont but thats just me for someone else it would so depends on the person

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  • I know some people have it done for professional reasons. Still not a fan.

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  • no if you are getting it please make sure that they are the best and post final results

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  • I wouldn't... I never thought it in that way, sry but y is it insecure by d way?

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  • Sure but it also makes them hotter. Tits are 🤤👍

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  • Depends on why the boob job.

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  • I think so

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  • Yes it does.

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  • No prob with wanting to improve your body

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  • Yeah pretty much.

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  • Definitely, why else would you be getting one

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  • U are what u are, don't mess with nature

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  • Why?

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What Girls Said 10

  • I think it depends on the reasoning. Sure a lot of the reasons may be because you are insecure, but women have their reasons. Maybe it for clothes to fit better (most clothing is designed for C-cup), or you lost weight so your breast hang (not a bad thing!), they could be unproportional (totally normal and perfectly fine!), maybe you had a mastectomy, it doesn't matter.

    There is nothing wrong with have a boob job, as long as you're happy and doing it for YOURSELF it's great!

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  • Yeah. I mean why else would you let somebody put you to sleep, cut you open, and start rearranging your body? I get that some people get plastic surgery for health reasons but to just decide that you want to permanently alter your body (for superficial reasons) indicates that you're not happy with your body.

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  • My father is a plastic surgeon he made a career and put food on the table mostly out of boob jobs. So my answer is a big NO. Bring those big boobies lovers anytime😂

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  • Sometimes, but can you really blame women for being insecure about that in our society? Like I'm sure tons of men would get dick enhancement if it were mainstream and fairly safe.

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    • I think you may have just predicted a future trend in cosmetic surgery. Ha ha.

  • No, it doesn't. That's like saying every girl who wears makeup is insecure.

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  • I think people have the right to improve themselves on how they see fit, but for some reason my gut says they're insecure if they've had work done

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  • The ont time it seems justifiable is if you have breast cancer and lose your breasts. My friends mom had her breasts removed. In her case would be justifiable.

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  • I would imagine you are only more confident after the boob job. Thats why we get them isn't it?

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  • Yes-

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  • yeah these girls have issues especially if no deformities and health problems were involved.

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